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trip2
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Posted: Jan 31 2011 at 7:34pm |
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Bonnie I am so very sorry, my condolences to your family.
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Stage 2 2003
Stage 1 2007
BRCA 1+
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overwhelmed
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Posted: Jan 31 2011 at 9:35pm |
Bonnie,
I am so sorry. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I cannot begin to understand this and cannot begin to imagine the pain your are enduring.
God bless you.
Lori
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DX ILC TNBC 3/10 at 50, Stage IIb; Grade 3; 5.1 to 7 cm,SNB neg;TC-6 rnds, 30 rads, Avastin-18 rnds, BRAC 1&2-
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Shelly Rae
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Posted: Jan 31 2011 at 9:44pm |
Bonnie and family, I am so sad to hear of the loss of your Ashley. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May Ashley rest in peace, cancer free.
Shelly Rae
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4/09 age 47 Stage 3a, Gr 3,1 node micro ACx4 Tx4 Rads x 33, done Dec.1,2009 NED
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Kelly WIDIL
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Posted: Jan 31 2011 at 10:08pm |
My heart breaks for you. My deepest condolences don't seem enough.
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MIL, TNBC Stage 1, Grade 3
TAC 6 x 3,DX 10/10, Dble Mx 11/10, 12/10 reexision to clear margins, 12/10 mass found on ovaries, uterine lining thick 1/11 chemo starts, ooph and or hyst. pending
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Kiki
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Posted: Jan 31 2011 at 11:26pm |
Bonnie,
When I read your post today - I could not stop the tears from falling....and I finally brought myself to posting because I wanted you to know that I have been keeping you and Ashley in my prayers and I mourn your loss even though I never knew Ashley....I was also diagnosed in August 2009 at the age of 32 and have followed this website since the day I found out I was triple negative. My mother stayed with me through my entire 10 month treatment plan and I developed such a close bond with her that i tell everyone that if i had to do it all over again i would just to be blessed with the time i got to bond with my mother. This site has been such a source of love, support and strength for me even though I have never met anyone or posted....I have learned so much and gained so much from everyone. I will continue to pray for strength for you and your family...
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mom&grandma
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Posted: Feb 01 2011 at 3:54am |
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Bonnie, mom of Heather, age 32, Dx on 9/1/09 TN IDC Stage 1, 1.4 c, lumpectomy, 10/8/09, DD AC & T, 3/9/10 bilateral mastectomy and immediate reconstruction, BRCA 1/2-
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cdenunzio
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Posted: Feb 01 2011 at 5:59am |
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Bonnie-I am so sorry to hear this news. I am sure she is in a better place without pain. If you ever need to talk you know how to reach me.
Chris DeNunzio
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LauraT
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Posted: Feb 01 2011 at 11:30am |
Bonnie - I grieve with you and your family. I pray for you all to be comforted as you mourn for Ashley. I also pray that you are able to have the hope of heaven in your hearts as one day you will see her again, fully healed and whole. Our loved ones never leave our hearts and I know she will always and forever be in yours.
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Laura
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DX 10/09 @44, Stage I IDC tnbc, DCIS other side, Neoadjuvant TCx4, Bilateral Mastectomy w/Recon 1/10, 1.2cm 0/7 Nodes, 5/11 Mets to Lungs/Lymph Nodes, Avastin/Taxol, 10/11 Bone Mets, Xgeva
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NinaE
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Posted: Feb 01 2011 at 3:35pm |
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Bonnie, I'm heartbroken for you and your family. This is so unfair, and I'm so terribly sorry on your behalf. I would guess that you've pictured this moment for many months now, and now that it's here it is both sadder and fuller of memories and love for your beautiful daughter than you could have imagined. I hope that as your grand-daughter grows you'll continue to see Ashley's spirit develop and blossom in her.
I wish you didn't need to have this courage, even as it's been a source of strength for us here. May Ashley's memory be forever a blessing.
Nina
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Stage IV at dx in Dec 09, at age 38. Mets to lung, axillary, IM and mediastinal nodes.
4xAC-->dd Taxol. Dbl mast, 6/10. Radiation, 8/10. NED since June 2010.
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harbin
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Posted: Feb 01 2011 at 11:30pm |
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Bonnie, I am so so sad that Ashley lost her battle of this terrible disease. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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4/08 dx IDC,stg2,neg. nodes,4xAC,8xTexol& Avastin,BRCA-
3/10 Recurr Chestwall,surgery
6/10 Lung mets
10/10 Parp
05/11 Surgery on 2 lung nodules
08/11 Parp failed
10/11 Cyberknife 1 lung nodule
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EileenF
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Posted: Feb 02 2011 at 2:01pm |
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Bonnie I am crying as I write this, heartbroken for all you have gone through Please remember the tremendous love you surrounded Ashley with. I cant think of a better feeling than knowing those I love know I love them and they love me back unconditionally. Focus on the happy times with Ashley and she will live forever in your heart. You and your family remain in my prayers
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7/09:IDC,stg 3,Grade3, pos lymph;chemo ACT;12/09 lumpect n lymp disect;1/10 bilat masect/tis exp; rad cmpltd 4/10; 11/10 stg 4 lungs chest axil mets & parp trial;3/11 IBC diag;
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tninalabama
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Posted: Feb 02 2011 at 8:24pm |
Bonnie,
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Dx 11/07,stII bgr3,1/8+, metaplastic, recurrence 11/09, lymph dis 12/13+ 07/10, rad,x28 9/10,02/11 mets
BRCA neg
5-FMC since 03/12
PET 04/12,no progression
Bone scan clear 06/12
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penelope
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Posted: Feb 07 2011 at 11:13am |
Bonnie;
I have been keeping up with you and Ashley for awhile and have kept you both in my prayers and am sad to hear she is now gone but she is now pain free in a happier place and I will continue to keep your family in my prayers as you cope with her loss.May god bless you all.
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Dx May 2009
L Mast. May 2009
TNBC...Tumor grade 3
Metastisis Dx Oct.2009
Neck,clavical area and chest
Taxotere/Cytoxin June-Aug.2009
AC Oct.-Dec.2009
Avastin/Abraxain Dec.-March 2010
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Susie
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Posted: Feb 07 2011 at 7:19pm |
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Bonnie, I am so very sorry for your loss of Ashley. I just can not imagine what you are feeling.I am so very sorry... Comfort and peace I pray for you.. Susie
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dx 10/08,age 56,.75 cm. Stage1 Grade3,lumpectomy,SN neg..,AC 12/08-02/09,35rads,03/09-05/09,BRCA2+(E1415X),06/09,oophorectomy 10/09,
Zometa - IV/mo.,07/09-08/10, lumpectomy #2 10/20/10 NED
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Falcon
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Posted: Feb 16 2011 at 6:50pm |
Bonnie,
I don't know you but I want you to know I care and I will pray that the good Lord will hold you and comfort you as you continue on with your life untill you see your sweet Ashley again and you will I'm a firm believer in a mother's love can never be far from her child.
God please put an end to this terrible tnbc you can and I know you will!! In Jesus name we ask amen.
Hugs,
Susan
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My daughter Jessica
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SagePatientAdvocates
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Posted: Jun 21 2012 at 7:57pm |
Dear all,
Last night one of my dreams was fulfilled when I met Bonnie for the first time and shared a lovely meal with her.
She is a lovely, lovely woman and I am so glad we finally met.
Bonnie, no one could have done more for your adored Ashley and no one could be a better grandmother than you!
I cherished our friendship, before, but last night really brought things to a new level. Thank you for your graciousness and warmth. It was an evening I shall always remember and I look forward to seeing you again.
My prayers continue and shall always be with you and your family.
warmly,
Steve
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I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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123Donna
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Posted: Jun 21 2012 at 8:11pm |
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Oh Steve,
I'm so happy you got to meet Bonnie! May we all be so blessed to meet you one day.
Donna
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DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09) 11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15
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