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Bonnie I am so very sorry, my condolences to your family.
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Bonnie,
I am so sorry.  You are all in my thoughts and prayers.  I cannot begin to understand this and cannot begin to imagine the pain your are enduring.
 
God bless you.
 
Lori
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Bonnie and family, I am so sad to hear of the loss of your Ashley. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May Ashley rest in peace, cancer free.
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My heart breaks for you.   My deepest condolences don't seem enough. 

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Bonnie,
When I read your post today - I could not stop the tears from falling....and I finally brought myself to posting because I wanted you to know that I have been keeping you and Ashley in my prayers and I mourn your loss even though I never knew Ashley....I was also diagnosed in August 2009 at the age of 32 and have followed this website since the day I found out I was triple negative.  My mother stayed with me through my entire 10 month treatment plan and I developed such a close bond with her that i tell everyone that if i had to do it all over again i would just to be blessed with the time i got to bond with my mother.  This site has been such a source of love, support and strength for me even though I have never met anyone or posted....I have learned so much and gained so much from everyone.  I will continue to pray for strength for you and your family...
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Bonnie, mom of Heather, age 32, Dx on 9/1/09 TN IDC Stage 1, 1.4 c, lumpectomy, 10/8/09, DD AC & T, 3/9/10 bilateral mastectomy and immediate reconstruction, BRCA 1/2-
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Bonnie-I am so sorry to hear this news.  I am sure she is in a better place without pain.  If you ever need to talk you know how to reach me.

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Bonnie - I grieve with you and your family.  I pray for you all to be comforted as you mourn for Ashley.  I also pray that you are able to have the hope of heaven in your hearts as one day you will see her again, fully healed and whole.  Our loved ones never leave our hearts and I know she will always and forever be in yours.
 
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Bonnie, I'm heartbroken for you and your family. This is so  unfair, and I'm so terribly sorry on your behalf. I would guess that you've pictured this moment for many months now, and now that it's here it is both sadder and fuller of memories and love for your beautiful daughter than you could have imagined. I hope that as your grand-daughter grows you'll continue to see Ashley's spirit develop and blossom in her.

I wish you didn't need to have this courage, even as it's been a source of strength for us here. May Ashley's memory be forever a blessing.

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Bonnie, I am so so sad that Ashley lost her battle of this terrible disease. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 
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Bonnie   I am crying as I write this, heartbroken for all you have gone through   Please remember the tremendous love you surrounded Ashley with.  I cant think of a better feeling than knowing those I love know I love them and they love me back unconditionally.  Focus on the happy times with Ashley and she will live forever in your heart.  You and your family remain in my prayers  
7/09:IDC,stg 3,Grade3, pos lymph;chemo ACT;12/09 lumpect n lymp disect;1/10 bilat masect/tis exp; rad cmpltd 4/10; 11/10 stg 4 lungs chest axil mets & parp trial;3/11 IBC diag;
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Bonnie,
 I am so sorry for your loss.
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Bonnie;
   I have been keeping up with you and Ashley for awhile and have kept you both in my prayers and am sad to hear she is now gone but she is now pain free in a happier place and I will continue to keep your family in my prayers as you cope with her loss.May god bless you all.
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Bonnie, I am so very sorry for your loss of Ashley. I just can not imagine what you are feeling.I am so very sorry... Comfort and peace I pray for you.. Susie
dx 10/08,age 56,.75 cm. Stage1 Grade3,lumpectomy,SN neg..,AC 12/08-02/09,35rads,03/09-05/09,BRCA2+(E1415X),06/09,oophorectomy 10/09,
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Bonnie,
 
I don't know you but I want you to know I care and I will pray that the good Lord will hold you and comfort you as you continue on with your life untill you see your sweet Ashley again and you will I'm a firm believer in a mother's love can never be far from her child.
 
God please put an end to this terrible tnbc you can and I know you will!! In Jesus name we ask amen.
 
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Dear all,

Last night one of my dreams was fulfilled when I met Bonnie for the first time and shared a lovely meal with her. 

She is a lovely, lovely woman and I am so glad we finally met. 

Bonnie, no one could have done more for your adored Ashley and no one could be a better grandmother than you!

I cherished our friendship, before, but last night really brought things to a new level. Thank you for your graciousness and warmth. It was an evening I shall always remember and I look forward to seeing you again.

My prayers continue and shall always be with you and your family.

warmly,

Steve
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Oh Steve,

I'm so happy you got to meet Bonnie! May we all be so blessed to meet you one day.

Donna
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