Hi,, my sister went on the Zometa after she was diagnosed with a recurrence. Her first infusion she had a really hard time with nausea and was pretty much out of it for a couple of days. We got her some pre meds for the next round and she's just fine now.
Her scans show her tumors have shrunk a bit so for her it's a success.
I've been contemplating going the Zometa route but I think I've decided against it because the side effects are so horrendous. My onc says he has lots of patients on it and has had minimal problems. Some insurance companies won't pay for it so be sure and check that out; oh and also there's some clinical trials going on you might check on. My onc said the problems generally arise when you take big doses too frequently and for a prolonged period of time.
For now I'm going for some big doses of D3. Good luck !