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Dear Deb,

Welcome to our wonderful, supportive family.

I am glad you wrote and have a suggestion. Please contact the hospital where you were treated and see if they have a Supportive Care unit. They should be able to make a referral to a professional who can give you some psycho/social support to help you with what you are dealing with. Ideally, someone who is an expert in cancer and the anxiety it can cause.

Please seek some professional help. There is no 'easy' here, from my experience but a good therapist should help.

with warmest wishes for as good a Thanksgiving for you as possible.

warmly,

Steve
I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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Dear Deb, I had some emotional unravelling after chemo - panic attacks, depression, some obsessive/compulsive behavior very uncharacteristic of me. It was the fallout of my body and psyche being assaulted over a period of a year with chemo, multiple surgeries, and fears about dying. I found a great therapist who helped me through it. Steve's suggestion is right on the mark. Please do reach out as he suggests, and I think you will find a caring person who can help.
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Hi everyone, my name is Judi and I am a newbie here.  I was diagnosed last September with THBC. I started chemo right away. the first round of AC went well, never got sick just tired and no appetite.  By the second treatment my hair fell out by the handful, so I had my head shaved.  Didn't know that your hair kept you so warm, about froze till I found ski caps to wear, 
Then I was 1/2 through the 2nd type of chemo Taxal (?) when I got chemical inducted pneumonia, hospitalize for 2 weeks,  I was pretty much over the pneumonia when I had to go the ER for 18 hours as it came back. I am doing better, but still on oxygen most of the day. I need to rebuild my energy level.
I know all though I have had set backs, that I have had it far less than most, and for that I feel both grateful and sad for the others.
Hopefully I can have surgery soon to get this beast out of me forever.  My prayers and best wishes to all of you
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Hi All!  My name is Deanna and I was diagnosed in September with TNBC.  My BRCA is negative for mutations.  I am waiting to have surgery depending on insurance approval.  They have denied a bilateral mastectomy and will only do the affected breast.  I am in the middle of a battle with them right now for approval and a peer to peer will take place Monday, My surgery is supposed to be Tuesday.

Will follow surgery with chemo.

IDC grade 3 Stage 1b, 15mm lump.

My emotions run wild all the time.  I'm ready to get treatment started and the insurance company to approve the double mastectomy.

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Hi Deanna,

I'm so sorry you are dealing with insurance issues.  It's not right, but many of us have had to battle them.  What is their justification of denying the bilateral mastectomy?  I was stage 1 and had no problem with insurance approving a bilateral mastectomy.  Hope you get the results you want and your surgeon is fighting the battle for you.

Donna
DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09)
11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15

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Hi,  Sorry to hear that your insurance isn't on board with the double mastectomy.  Did your Dr. suggest that this is what you should do?  I'm surprised that if this is what you desire to do that they wouldn't allow it.   I do not have the BRCA gene, I had tnbc Stage 3c with 3 underarm lymph nodes as well as my chest wall lymph nodes with cancer.  My Dr. told me that a lumpectomy was the way to go.  I had chemo first and then the lumpectomy.  I am now 7 years from diagnosis and doing great.  This is a very personal decision and you should be able to have the double mastectomy if you want.  When you get this diagnosis you should not be under this stress on top of it all.  Good luck.  
Dx TNBC 6/12; age 59; Stage 3, Grade 3; 3.5 cm, 3/10 nodes + chest wall nodes; A/C x4, T x 12 completed 12/12 with PCR, 2/13/13 lump; IMRT Rads x 33 completed 5/22/13 BRCA 1 negative.
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Doctor is fighting for me too.  They said they did not have all the information.   I know that did.  An ER doctor made the decision.  
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Yes, doctor recommended it.  I was on board to get the bilateral mastectomy from the beginning.   I'm BRCA negative as well.  I'm fighting for my right to choose the treatment I want.   Thank you for support and your story.  Your story gives me hope.
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I am new to the forum and am writing on behalf of a 72 y/o friend treated with lumpectomy, chemo and radiation for HER-2 neg grade 3 invasive ductal cancer. Insurance refused to pay for an annual CT of chest, abdomen, pelvis because she exhibited no new signs/symptoms of breast cancer-this based on the Medicare National Coverage Determination. Is this standard ? Is it worth appealing?

thanks so much, Linda
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Welcome Linda! It's true, no body scanning is usually done unless she has something unusual going on. With TNBC and lumpectomy they usually do mammograms every 6 months for at least two years. If she has dense breasts or lots of scar tissue from surgery or necrosis from radiation she could get a breast MRI once a year - mammogram once a year, MRI once a year, staggered every six months. If she does have any new weird body pain that persists for more than a week she could get some kind of scan. A year ago I got sciatica in my lower back. It was horrible and it didn't go away after a few weeks. My oncologist ordered a bone scan.Luckily it was all clear, further MRI showed it was just a screwed up couple of discs (surgery in February gave me much relief). I gotta say, I was right at my 2 year post treatment  mark and it was awesome to have that full body bone scan come up clear. I wish there was a test they could do for our peace of mind if nothing else. But with them costing like $5000, that's not gonna happen. 
IDC, 2.2 cm, Stage IIb,lumpectomy 1/30/09 ACx4,Tx4 36 rads
6/1/16 Local recurrence same breast, same spot 1.8cm Carb.4x every 3 wks, Taxol 12x once wk. Dbl Mast. PCR!! Reconstruction fail, NED!
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 Hi:  I have recently been diagnosed with stage 1, grade 3 TNBC.  I was fortunate to discover a 1.5cm lump just 4 months after a mammogram.  I had tests done, biopsy and mastectomy on right breast within 3 weeks of finding the lump.  I became septic 12 days post operative.  I have kidney disease (FSGS) and nephrotic syndrome, Rheumatoid arthritis as well as MGUS.  I see on most posts and articles that Chemo is recommended, however, my kidneys are already compromised.  I am also extremely anemic at 72.  Any one else ventured this road with the existing complications I have?  I just turned 63 (day of my results).  Through all this, no one checked my left breast and I kept pushing for an ultra-sound.  Finally my family doctor arranged one and today, I just received the results that I have an elliptical circumscribed solid hypoechoic nodule measuring 4 x 2 x 5 mm with mildly dilated retroareola ducts which there was no indication previously.  Since this cancer is quite aggressive and I have heard that there is a 30-40% risk of it occurring in the other breast, I am concerned.  Any suggestions?  Thanks and my best to all of you who are on this journey!  
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Hi everybody,

First I apologized about my english but I'm French so it's not easy for me

I'm Dorothée, i'm 45 years old. In June, I have diagnosed stage 4 grade 4. at the beginning, it was difficult to accept because i'm not so old, i'm marathoner, I ran all the time and suddenly i can't run a mile. Nobody in my family have never had a breast cancer... But i have no choice and i decided to face the disease. I would like to have informations and I want to know the treatments you have, in France I created my association and I fight to have immunotherapy. is it to use in the USA?
thks you
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