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Pink Warrior 
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 Topic: The Passing of Another TNBCerPosted: Feb 13 2012 at 4:41pm |
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Hello ladies. My name is Matt, and I am the Pink Warrior's loving hubby. I am so terribly sorry to have to announce that my dearest Kimberly lost her fight this morning. God called her home around 11:30 today. She fought a very noble and valiant fight. And she fought it all the way to the end. I don't have the time to go into any details because I have to go get our precious daughter from day care and let her know the bad news.
I know you all are a very tight and supporting community. I thank you for all your prayers in the past, in the future. And I pray that each of you all that are effected by this devastating disease are able to find a course of treatment that works for you. God Bless you all!
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Dx:10/09,IDC Stg 2,Gr 3,TN
BRCA 1&2 - Partial DD EC/AC Local recur 11/10 BMX 12/10 Right proph TC x 4 Rads x 33 9/11 Skin mets, mediastinal & hilar nodes Abraxane/Avastin |
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BamaRachel
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 4:59pm |
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Matt, I am so sorry to hear this news. You and Pink Warrior have been in my prayers. May you find peace and comfort during this very sad time.
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DX 7/5/11, TN Invas; Lump w/clear marg., 7/21/11; Stage 2A. Grade 3, 2.6 c; 0/6 nodes; TX 8/22/11 4DD E/C; 4Taxotere; Chemo ended 1/3/12; 33 Radiation Treatments, ended 3/15/12.
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K in Sugar Land
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 5:05pm |
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Matt, I am so sorry to hear the news of Kim's passing. I admire her courage and tenacity in her long fight with this terrible disease. You and your family will remain in my prayers.
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Dx IDC TNBC MDA2/11 age 51 T2N0M0 Grd 3 4.8cm BRCA- vitD22 Taxol 12wk FAC once 3 wk for 12 wk Complete chemo8/11 Tumor not seen on scans Lumpsurgery 0/4 nodes9/11 pCR 30rads done11/11 NED vitD3903/12
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SagePatientAdvocates
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 5:11pm |
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Dear Matt,
Thank you for taking the time to post. I am without words....they seem so inadequate. Your wife was a truly lovely woman. I hate to ask you to do this but could you be so kind, at some point, to go into the forum called Remembering Nancy Block Zenna-TNBC tributes and try to post some more biographical information there. I think we would all appreciate knowing more about your lovely bride. She was not just a warrior for herself; she was for many here as well. She simply graced us with her presence. Even as she fought she reached out to help all of us. Truly remarkable. It was an honor for me to get to know her a bit. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. warmly, Steve
Edited by steve - Feb 13 2012 at 5:14pm |
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I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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mainsailset
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 6:27pm |
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Matt, knowing Kim's courage I am not surprised that she found a warrior soul mate in you. Your love gave her such strength and lasting courage and now I want you to know that though you are facing another journey to keep yourself and your young daughter and family upright in a world that must feel like it is spinning out of control, please please return here to visit as you are a part of our forever family and whatever we can do to give you support, we will stand by.
For you and your family, one of my favorites
The Little Ship
I stood watching as the little ship sailed out to sea.
The setting sun tinted her white sails with a golden light and as she disappeared from sight
a voice at my side whispered. "She is gone"
But the sea was a narrow one.
On the farther shore a little band of friends had gathered to watch and wait in happy
expection.
Suddenly they caught sight of the tiny sail and, at the very moment when my companion
had whispered "She is gone"
A glad shout went up in joyous welcome. "Here she comes!"
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dx 7/08 TN 14x6.5x5.5 cm tumor
3 Lymph nodes involved, Taxol/Sunitab+AC, 5/09 dbl masectomy, path 2mm tumor removed, lymphs all clear, RAD 32 finished 9/11/09. 9/28 CT clear 10/18/10 CT clear |
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123Donna
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 6:51pm |
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I got to know Kim from this forum and we both had recurrences about the same time and shared so much going through treatment together. I consider Kim my good friend. I had the privilege and honor to meet Kim, Matt and their family. Matt and Kim truly were a team and supported each other unconditionally. Kim told me she found someone special in Matt and she was blessed. I have to agree. But I also believe Matt was equally blessed in finding a partner in Kim. The first time we had lunch together Kim had made me this beautiful bracelet and also crafted the box it came in. Kim was so talented and creative. The last time I saw Kim was on December 9th when her and Matt joined us for lunch after one of Kim's treatments in St. Louis. At that time, Kim was doing so well and responding to treatment. I prayed that it would continue. My heart has been so heavy today with Kim's passing. I can't believe this beautiful person is gone from us. I wish all of you could have met Kim. She fought this with all she had to give. She loved her husband and children so much. Matt, you will always be part of our family. Let us help you and your family if you need anything. Bless you Matt for being a wonderful husband and father. Donna < ="text/" ="" ="/B1D671CF-E532-4481-99AA-19F420D90332etdefender/huidhui.js?0=0&0=0&0=0"> |
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DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09)
11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15 |
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Susie
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 7:07pm |
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I am so sad to learn of Kim's passing today. How brave she was ,and such a valiant warrior. I pray for her family and I pray for a cure.. We must find a cure... Blessings to all.. Susie
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dx 10/08,age 56,.75 cm. Stage1 Grade3,lumpectomy,SN neg..,AC 12/08-02/09,35rads,03/09-05/09,BRCA2+(E1415X),06/09,oophorectomy 10/09,
Zometa - IV/mo.,07/09-08/10, lumpectomy #2 10/20/10 NED |
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LRM216
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 7:19pm |
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Matt:
I am literally sick to my stomach at reading this post. Even when I clicked on it, I thought it was Kim telling us of another sister's passing - not that it was Kim that has left us. Please know that we all are sincerely mourning the loss of your beloved, brave, compassionate and loving wife. While I never had the pleasure of meeting her in person, and getting to know her personally, as Donna was fortunate to do, I feel as though I did know her personally.
Please know that my prayers and my condolences are being sent to you and the children, and all the many others that loved Kim too, both through this post and in spirit. We all have been blessed having had Kim leave her footprints on our hearts. God bless you.
Linda
Linda
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Linda - diagnosed at age 62
Diag 2/23/09 IDC 1.2 cent. IDC right breast,Stage 1, Grade 3,0/1 nodes - Triple Neg 4 DD AC every two weeks, 1 Dd Taxol, then 3 Taxotere every three weeks - rads x 33 |
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dmwolf
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 7:28pm |
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Matt, I am just crushed. Kim became a dear friend , first through this community and later through FB and phone calls. I am crying here at my desk. I am so very very sorry you lost your darling wife. She tried so hard to stay on earth for you and the lovely daughter you created together. What a completely hideous disease - I hate it so much.
I can only imagine what you are going through as you prepare to break the news to your sweet little girl. She is very lucky to have you for a father. I know you will continue to raise her with great love and help her remember Kim. Our arms are around both of you, and Kim's spirit as well. Love, Denise |
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DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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dmwolf
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 7:30pm |
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I'll start a thread for Kim in the tribute section, so she can be properly mourned and remembered.
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DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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TNBC_in_NS
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 7:42pm |
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Matt, husband of Kim & Kim's Daughter,
I am so shocked to hear that Kim has passed :(
She was our WARRIOR! She is our WARRIOR!
I like my other brothers & sisters thought she was still fighting a GREAT fight!
I am so sorry for your loss!
Please come back if you need to chat, we are here for you and your daughter anytime.
Rest in Peace dear WARRIOR PRINCESS, KIM! hugs, love Helen in Nova Scotia Canada
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Diag@57TNBC04/092.5cm Lquad 05/09 TCx4Radsx30CT03/01/10 FU03/31/10ClearBRCA- 01/2011 RTNBC BMX 06/14/2011~2013 clear
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christina1961
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 7:50pm |
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I am so very sorry to hear this awful news. I did not know Kim personally, but have read many of her posts and she was such a positive, kind woman. Her personality came through her writing; she was so interested in others and how they were doing. I am so sorry for your loss.
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2.5 cm TNBC, BRCA-, diag. 2/11, neoadj chemotherapy, uni MX, y2cm,2/16 nodes, RCBII, tumor retested 5-10%ER+,PR-,Her2-, rads, clin trial eribulin 10/11-2/12, tamox.
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sue
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 8:00pm |
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Dear Matt,
Thank you for your post. Though I am at a loss for words to truly express the grief and sadness I feel, my heart and spirit is with Kim and you and your family. I will be forever grateful to have had the support and inspiration of your beautiful wife and yourself here on this site. She brought light and hope every time she was present or even with the mention of her name, and this light and hope will remain forever. Love and Peace, Sue
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Dx 7/10, age 53. TNBC left breast, stage I, grade 3, IDC 0.5 cm, DCI 2.5 cm, 0/8 lymph nodes neg. BRCA-. T/C x4 finished 2/09/11, rads x34 finished 4/21/11.
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 8:15pm |
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Matt and family -
I am so sorry for your loss - Kim will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ann
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8/06: IDC 1cm, 0/9 lymph nodes, lumpectomy, Mammosite radiation, 4 x A/C
5/07: BRCA1+ (5382insC) 11/09: IDC 3mm, double mastectomy w/reconstruction |
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Posted: Feb 13 2012 at 11:28pm |
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Matt,
Please know that all here fell your loss. We all battle and it just doesn't seem fair when one so young is taken. Know we are here to help you in anyway you need to be helped. Nita
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DX 09/10 TNBC Stage3c, grade3, Tumor 2.7cm, chemo started 9/29/10, AC x4, Taxol x12, lumpectomy 4/11/11-tumor .6cm, 3+/22 nodes, radiation x 30 finished 6/30/11.Clinical Trial Cisplatin,PARP 8/23/11
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Posted: Feb 14 2012 at 7:48am |
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Dear all,
Denise (dmwolf) kindly started a tribute thread for Kim (Pink Warrior) in the Tribute section. Please use the following thread, Remembering Kimberly Clark (Pink Warrior) to express your feelings about this awful loss. The Talk section is the most active on this forum and it is where most new to the forum go. The Tribute section was created so that those of us, new and old to the forum, who would like, can go and learn more about our departed family member, express remembrances and grieve. But many, new to the forum, may just want to be supported and encouraged. Ideally, this thread, The Passing of Another TNBCer will become inactive. And that does not mean that we are not mourning Kim openly and publicly. Quite the contrary as you can see in the Tribute section. Just think it is best to do in the Tribute section. I hope everyone understands and that Denise and I have not offended anyone. warmly, Steve
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I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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tninalabama
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Posted: Feb 15 2012 at 7:12pm |
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I am so sorry to hear to of Kim's passing. She will be sorely missed. My prayers for your family.
Pam
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Dx 11/07,stII bgr3,1/8+, metaplastic, recurrence 11/09, lymph dis 12/13+ 07/10, rad,x28 9/10,02/11 mets
BRCA neg 5-FMC since 03/12 PET 04/12,no progression Bone scan clear 06/12 |
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Posted: Feb 16 2012 at 9:05pm |
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Dear Matt,
I am so sorry. You and your daughter are welcome to draw from our strength and comfort anytime. I am fairly new to this forum and did not know Kim. From what I have just read from the others, she sounds like an amazing woman. My sincere condolences, ~Nancy~
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Dx March 2010, age 54, 5 mm tumor, Stage Ia, Grade 3, 0/3 Nodes, Ki-67 70%,
Lumpectomy April 2010, TC x 4, Rads x 33, Treatment completed Sept 2010, NED 06/17 |
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