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Topic: I have lost me best friend

Posted By: r2bigdawgz
Subject: I have lost me best friend
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 4:20am

So today my best friend at the age of 33 was taken after a short 2 year battle with this TERRIBLE TNBC. SHe is in heaven as the rest of us are here hating cancer more by the minute. However no one more than her husband and 3 little children. Angie was dxd with TNBC and then a week later found out she was expecting. She leaves behind a 13month old a 5 year old and a 9 year old, along with an Active Duty Marine. I am so lost! I hate CANCER!!!

but Angie is with Jesus!

still the pain is so palpable!

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Posted By: diane1234
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 5:26am

Oh Honey...............I am SOOOOO sorry for your loss. I too hate this disease MORE than you know. I am up this early in the morning because I have such pain in my chest and upper shoulders that I simply cannot lay down. You can see my signature at the bottom. I have just been diagnosed with a recurrence in my chest wall. I feel the MONSTER inside of me trying to take OVER.....I HATE IT. I am 37 years old. I have been in the battle a little over a year.....I was 36 then. Please tell us your friends last name so we can see her online obituary.....I pray that God wraps his arms around the young victims and holds the husbands hand when they KNOW the mountain is too steep. This breaks my heart. I just WONDER when there WILL be something for us. HOW MANY MORE CHILDREN HAVE TO CLOSE THERE EYES AT NIGHT MISSING THEIR MOMMIES.....OH I KNOW SHE IS DANCING WITH JESUS. I believe that there will be a family reunion. It will be in a place we call Heaven. Know that we are here if you want to share. I am married with three kids......

May God Bless All Of Us with Some PEACE.......

Love,

Diane......(another young mom fighting for her life)

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dx 4/09 at 36 yrs old. dbl Mast. 5/09. 12 weekly Taxol 4 FAC tri weekly. 32 rads completed 2/2010. Its Back 5/2010!! Chest wall, Mediastinal node, Lft mammary node and liver. Back on chemo.

Posted By: Carol (Tenn)
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 8:04am

[QUOTE=Carol (Tenn)]Oh my Goodness...I am so sorry for you and for your friends family. One of the many things with the sisters in the fight have in common, we all hate cancer in general and TNBC in particular.

Please know that we are praying for you, her family, her husband, and 3 young children and the ones who will be, along with their Dad loving and caring for them.

My heart aches for them. Try to remember this, in the midst of all your pain. "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9

Love and Prayers,

Carol

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St 2 Gr 3, A/C/T, DD
Radiation x35
Rec chest wall 07/09
Radiation x28
NED 10/24/11
NED 10/5/12
NED 03/15/13

Posted By: Carol (Tenn)
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 8:06am

Angie,

We also have a tribute forum..TNBC Tributes where you can add the link to her obit. and your comments.

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St 2 Gr 3, A/C/T, DD
Radiation x35
Rec chest wall 07/09
Radiation x28
NED 10/24/11
NED 10/5/12
NED 03/15/13

Posted By: TNBC_in_NS
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 2:43pm

Oh dear Kymm:

I am so sorry to hear about your friend passing. Especially so young and with a very young family! My heart is breaking, my soul is numb, my body is so angry that this horrible disease has to take so many of us and more so our young.

Give our condolences to her family and let her husband know that we are only a click away for support through this. You said he is an active marine, God Bless him as he journey's to the unknown to fight for others. We support him and his fellow brothers in the fight for freedom. Bless those three babes - that yes, they must go to bed at night without their momma...so sad. Let us rejoice in knowing that she has paid her dues in full, as Jesus our Saviour has paid for ours too, and know that she is safe in the arms of Jesus.

God Bless you too for being a wonderful friend, come back whenever you need to and yes, we have a tribute section to let others know how many have fought the fight and lost. Together we are strong so come back any time. God be with you all, Helen in NS

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Diag@57TNBC04/092.5cm Lquad 05/09 TCx4Radsx30CT03/01/10 FU03/31/10ClearBRCA- 01/2011 RTNBC BMX 06/14/2011~2013 clear

Posted By: Falcon
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 10:52pm

Heart broken in California.....Why it makes no sence that this beast has any power at all. I know in my heart that your friend fought her battle head on wanting the outcome to be different as we all do. God has a plan and we just have to trust and keep strong in our faith. May God look over and bless her family. And you too as you mourn the loss of your dear friend.

Susan