Tribute MemorialMy
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Topic: Tribute MemorialMy
Posted By: jbabs15
Subject: Tribute MemorialMy
Date Posted: May 18 2010 at 6:04pm
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My Wife, My Wife past away May 7 after battling this terrible disease. I made a flower bed in the shape of the Breast Cancer ribbon. I am looking for anyone who would like to have memorabilia put on this memorial. It could be with a loved ones name or a breast cancer symbol anything you would like to recognize breastcancer or like I said recognize someone you care for. You can mail it to me in care of Jim ,My address is 66 Third Ave Oswego NY 13126 ,my email is j.babs15@yahoo.com. If you send your e-mail to me I will send pics of my tribute to my Wife. I loved her with all my heart she fought this as hard as she could and she is my hero,she is truly missed. Thanks Jim |
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Posted By: Bonnie
Date Posted: May 18 2010 at 8:29pm
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Jim: My condolences on your wife's passing. TNBC is a horrible, terrible disease. I wools love to see a pic of the memorial you made for her. My email is Bonnie.hatfield@railamerica com.
Bonnie ------------- Bonnie - Daughter Ashley dx TN 8/09 @ 22; St3, BRCA1/2-; AC&Ixempra done 2/10; mets to lung 3/10; G/C 3/10; PARP 6/10; sternum mets 9/10; NK012 failed; mets to liver, spine, kidney; Avastin/Xeloda |
Posted By: TNBC_in_NS
Date Posted: May 18 2010 at 11:47pm
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Jim: I am so sorry you are dealing with the profound loss of your hero wife! Please send your memorial to us here on the TNBC website and we will post it for you in our Memorial Forum. Again, I am so sorry you are experiencing the pain in the loss of your dear wife. This is a terrible disease and it knows no barriers of who it will take... May you be blessed in a special way this week as you mourn your loss. Heaven has another angel... Helen in NS
------------- Diag@57TNBC04/092.5cm Lquad 05/09 TCx4Radsx30CT03/01/10 FU03/31/10ClearBRCA- 01/2011 RTNBC BMX 06/14/2011~2013 clear |
Posted By: diane1234
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 5:33am
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I am another sister in the fight. I honor your wife.....I honor you for being an amazing husband. I too have an amazing husband.....and it shatters my heart to know I may just leave him way to soon. I want you to know how important it was to her for you to have loved and supported her through this......I am up in the dark....I can t sleep due to the pain of this HORRIBLE DISEASE......My husband rest in the other room. I worry for his resting......Thank you for honoring her....and PLEASE send us a picture.....If able please share more about your lovely wife.....I am know she is dancing with those angels......
LOTS OF LOVE......and praying God gives you peace,
Diane ------------- dx 4/09 at 36 yrs old. dbl Mast. 5/09. 12 weekly Taxol 4 FAC tri weekly. 32 rads completed 2/2010. Its Back 5/2010!! Chest wall, Mediastinal node, Lft mammary node and liver. Back on chemo. |
Posted By: abcmom
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 9:33am
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I would love to see pictures also. Please know that you are in our prayers. mailto:keri1168@gmail.com - keri1168@gmail.com . ------------- Diag 11/06/09 @ 40; Diag w/ TNBC Stage IIA, Grade 3 12/01/09 Node Neg. Dble MX with Recon 12/09 (twice) Chemo 1/13/10 Chemo done 4/22/10 More recon surg 07/10, PET/CT Scan clear 07/10 NED 07/11 |
Posted By: jbabs15
Date Posted: May 19 2010 at 10:02am
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Thanks for the loving responses, My Wife was a true fighter who wanted to live on. She fought this disease till the end when it just became to much for her. She never wished this off on anyone and she always found a way to take care of me. She was a caregiver who always made sure I was alright and she thanked me everyday for being there for her. I in return would tell her that I was the one to be thank full and I truly was as she was my world. Since she has passed there are so many things I miss and a lot of them are little things you take for granted. I have family and friends ask if I am moving or how can you stay there. To be completely honest I thought staying here would be hard the house was decorated by her pictures everywhere of her, but to my surprise being here is where I feel closest to her and my plans are to leave everything as is and enjoy everything we built together and remember all the good times we had and there were many more good than bad. To all you women there is one thing I can tell you that may help some. Let your husband know your wishes and be completely honest with him about what you would like for him when you are gone. Jeannine told me a lot and I am comforted knowing that I can try and carry out her wishes. I love and miss my wife terribly but I know she is in a better place, she is always in my head and heart and always will be my hero. Jim |
Posted By: trip2
Date Posted: May 20 2010 at 9:25pm
It saddens my heart to see we have another Angel. Jim thank you for letting us know, you sound like a wonderful loving husband. My condolences to you and your family. ------------- Stage 2 2003 Stage 1 2007 BRCA 1+ |
Posted By: chloesmom
Date Posted: May 23 2010 at 10:07pm
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Jim, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. TNBC is a terrible disease, one my Mom is fighting hard. I would love the see your pictures. My email address is jdlcgreer@gmail.com Dana Greer |
Posted By: Falcon
Date Posted: Jun 13 2010 at 12:26am
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Dear Jim,
I too am sorry to hear about your loss. I will be praying that your broken heart will heal a little each day.
God Bless you,
Susan ------------- My daughter Jessica Treated and Healed!!!!! |
Posted By: 123Donna
Date Posted: Jun 13 2010 at 2:24am
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Jim,
How are you doing? I worry so much about our loved ones and how they'll carry on. Your tribute to your wife was so lovely. Donna ------------- DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09) 11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15 |