New Diagnosis, researching options
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Topic: New Diagnosis, researching options
Posted By: tjpecknh
Subject: New Diagnosis, researching options
Date Posted: Dec 18 2020 at 8:27am
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Hi. I was diagnosed with TNBC just a couple weeks ago though routine mammogram. I am healthy and 53. The tumor is about 5-7mm and there does not seem to be any spread to lymph nodes or other areas of either breast in a recent MRI.
I met with a surgeon Wednesday and then a plastic surgeon. I am awaiting genetic test results that I hope to have by 12/24 and will make my treatment decision easier as if I have a genetic predisposition I will get a double mastectomy with immediate reconstruction. The struggle I have is in the options without the genetics.
My maternal grandmother had BC in 1946 at the age of 41 so of course I have no idea what that was but she lived to be 96 and very healthy.
My mother had DCIS stage 0 at 70 (five years ago) and had lumpectomy and radiation and is doing fine but that's a very different cancer.
My husband passed away from anal cancer 18 months ago and while I recognize that area of radiation would have very different issues it had negative outcomes. I worry about having radiation right over my heart. I am a marathon swimming so all treatment options concern me with my ability to swim for hours (although read about Sarah Thomas a TNBC patient who recently broke the world record by swimming across the English Channel 4 times after treatment and reconstruction).
So, if I don't have the genetics that indicate I am at more risk do I still get a double mastectomy and reconstruction? I've read many articles and papers someone posted on this topic and it really has me waffling on the decision I thought I would make either way. I was going to meet with a radiologist to ask some questions but cancelled that for a multitude of reason, the least of which being that my mother went to her and the DR (although very good at what she does) appears to be on the spectrum and wasn't able to give my mother the information she needed to make a decision so she had to go elsewhere for a second opinion. I do have the name of another radiologist but if I don't have the genes I don't need to talk to a radiologist (I also would not have had the results when the original appointment was scheduled).
I hope I'm not all over the map here. My brain sure is. Any insight with these options. How much time would I be out of commission with a double mastectomy and reconstruction. I work remotely and my day job is easy to take time off but I also teach college courses at night and can't determine if I would be able to do that this spring or not.
Thanks for reading and any insight would be very helpful.
Terri
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Posted By: kirby
Date Posted: Dec 18 2020 at 9:01am
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Terri, The 24th isn't that far off to wait if you feel you need that answer. Unfortunately so many of the decisions are such a personal matter along with how comfortable you are. What would your tx be without the genetic testing?
I had tx 20 years ago. I didn't have genetic testing until 2 years later. It wasn't offered beforehand at that point. I was 45 years old. My mother had just passed at age 64 from ovarian cancer. I had basic genetic testing and it was negative. I had extensive genetic testing thru the King study in maybe 2010. It was negative for everything. My sister ended up being dx with er+ breast cancer in 2012. No one else in my extended family had ever been dx with either breast or ovarian cancer.
I am a runner. Not far, but do run daily, 2-5 miles. At the time also, Dr's couldn't give advice as to what the effects would be for running or working out. I am missing the bottom part of my lung due to radiation. Dr said it was inconsequential. I was able to run after chemo but stopped towards the end of radiation to resume once it was over.
My run partner was dx 2 years ago with stage 2 her2 so endured quite a bit more of treatment. Certainly far more than I had.[ my tx was much less than what is given today for TN]
She chose lumpectomy for the convenience of recovery. Her first dr had suggested mastectomy but she felt like he chose that more for his convenience. She ran all thru tx except for the 3-5 days of chemo.
I was still raising children so didn't have energy to run when I went thru chemo. My run partner, in her mid 50's at dx, was finished raising kids so perhaps had more energy.
Your cancer is still very small.
I believe Donna 123 answered someone else's question within the last few months about the outcome difference between mastectomy and lumpectomy. I am sure someone with more technical knowledge will weigh in.
Both my run partner and myself worked all thru tx.
I don't know if this answered any of your questions. I hope it helps.
------------- kirby
dx Feb. 2001. Age 44 Lumpectomy
2cm. no nodes stage 1 grade 3
4 rnds AC, 35 rads
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Posted By: tjpecknh
Date Posted: Dec 18 2020 at 5:39pm
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Thanks Kirby,
I know everyone will come up with a different decision and it does help to read others experiences and thought process. I believe if I test positive I will have a double mastectomy with immediate reconstruction. It's the decisions I'd make if I don't have the gene that I'm stuck on. If I was sure I'd make the same decision either way I could schedule surgery now and not wait to get results then decide.
Your comments about your lung are scary! This tumor, although very small, is right over my heart so that freaks me out. I have an appointment with a radiologist but not until 1/7. If she isn't able to help my concerns about my heart then I'd go with more drastic surgery and really sooner is better if I need to take all this recovery time.
My surgeon feels waiting for those results is a good idea too. It was reading some of the materials posted here about radiation and lumpectomy having some better results that had me questioning things more.
Thanks for your feedback.
Terri
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Posted By: snugltz
Date Posted: Dec 19 2020 at 1:36am
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tjpecknh
my cancer was also right over my heart. And I have several fairly serious heart issues. Mitral valvue prolapse, atrial fib and atrial flutter. Im on two different heart meds.I had a lumpectomy only. This was over 10 years ago and I know things have changed. But I had 2 months every day of radiation. They were very careful with the radiation. But the doctor would not allow me to have the red devil part of the chemo. I have forgotten what it is called. It used to be one of three chemos they used.
------------- 1 cm, 0/2 neg nodes, lumpectomy 6/16/10, cytoxin/taxotere 4x every three weeks, rad start 11/8 33X
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Posted By: SagePatientAdvocates
Date Posted: Dec 19 2020 at 7:26pm
Dear Terri,
I would suggest you have a discussion with your Breast Medical Oncologist (BMO) after you have your testing results. Hopefully, the BMO is an expert in TNBC and whatever genetic mutation you may have. Want to make sure all factors are considered before you do the surgery.
Good luck to you!!!
warmly,
Steve
------------- I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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Posted By: kirby
Date Posted: Dec 19 2020 at 8:15pm
Terri, I am sorry my comments on my lung seemed scary. I didn't mean for it to come off that way. The reason I brought it up is that perhaps it truly has been inconsequential.....I haven't missed it a bit and certainly can run and exercise like I did before.
------------- kirby
dx Feb. 2001. Age 44 Lumpectomy
2cm. no nodes stage 1 grade 3
4 rnds AC, 35 rads
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Posted By: Penny
Date Posted: Dec 20 2020 at 6:28pm
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Hi Terri,
I had about the same size tumor and right over my heart as well. I went back and forth on mastectomy's versus lumpectomy. I decided on the lumpectomy with radiation. I did have the genetic testing after my lumpectomy figuring I can always go back in and have the double mastectomy if needed. The testing came out negative. I am four years out from diagnosis and just saw my medical oncologist for my annual check up. All clear.
I am glad I took the conservative approach. I am an athlete as well and worried about the radiation directly over my heart muscle. They are very very careful on the beam that shoots across the breast on the left side. They have very strict protocol on breathing and hold techniques to make sure the RAD strike is accurate. I have had no issues since my treatment ended.
I read your post and know your mind is spinning right now. There are a lot of decisions to make but know you don't have to rush to make them. I felt panicked that I had to "hurry through every decision". You don't.
Find your team that you trust and work through the process. For me, once I began treatment, I relaxed a bit knowing I was walking down the path. Day by day. This forum kept me really balanced. I check this site every week to offer encouragement or just read about other survivors and how they are all doing. We are all in this together.
Here's hoping you get the answers you need this week so you can take your first step. We are all here for you. I like the saying "Let your Faith be stronger than your fear".
------------- DX IDC, TNBC 12/7/16 (age 55), Stage 1a Grade 2, .6cm, 0/1 nodes, Lumpectomy & node dissection 12/22/16, BRCA1&2 negative 1/23/17 Chemo TC. Chemo completed 3/28/17. 30 RADs completed 6/6/17.
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Posted By: 123Donna
Date Posted: Dec 21 2020 at 7:57am
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Hi Terri,
Hope you get your genetic test results this week so it will help you make your surgery decision. Without the genetic factor, many times it comes down to a personal choice. I know you are concerned about radiation. I had a bilateral mastectomy 11 years ago with implants placed under the pectoral muscle. I don't know if this is still the reconstruction practice or if the plastic surgeon has other options. I still don't care for the feel of the implants under the muscle when you stretch or try to exercise. I used to be able to throw a softball very far. Since surgery, the strength in my arms are not the same. I exercise and lift weights but don't have the same strength, range of motion as before surgery. I'd ask your surgeon how mastectomy surgery will affect your swimming vs lumpectomy/radiation.
Donna
------------- DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09) 11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15
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Posted By: tjpecknh
Date Posted: Dec 27 2020 at 8:34am
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This is very helpful. Thank you! In addition to these questions I started wondering why no on his mentioning chemo. The surgeon said if there was cancer in the lymph node then I could do chemo but not if there wasn't. I am beginning to wonder if his assumptions are based on breast cancer as a whole and not specifically TNBC. Don't get me wrong, I'd LOVE to skip chemo but not sure that's called for here. As result I have an appointment with a medical oncologist later this week at the same hospital I am currently at and a second option at Dana Faber a week later. Once I do all of this I will make my final decisions. I should hear on the gene tomorrow. I now think I may go lumpectomy and radiation if I do not have the gene and see when/how/if chemo plays into that whole thing. Meanwhile I have a "side job" as a college professor. I actually teach 12 credits and while 3 are formally online the other 9, due to Covid can be all online but they are real time. I need to have a better sense of my treatment plan so I can determine if I should sign my contract for the semester or not. It's a lot of money and not too hard on the work end as I teach so much of this course so I think a lumpectomy and radiation wouldn't hold me back a mastectomy and chemo would.
YUP, brain is spinning.
Thanks for your insight and feedback.
Terri
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Posted By: SagePatientAdvocates
Date Posted: Dec 27 2020 at 11:00am
Dear Terri,
My basic take on things is that you should try to get your care at a top cancer center, if economically feasible.
Dana Farber is one of the country's leading cancer centers. I am glad you will be going there to get a second opinion. I would also ask the Dana Farber medical oncologist for a referral to a radiation oncologist at Dana Farber and a Breast Surgical Oncologist there as well. The location of your tumor makes radiation therapy challenging and you should talk with a radiation oncologist expert, in my unprofessional opinion.
Also, I would ask Dana Farber for a referral to one of their certified genetic counselors. 16 years ago when my daughter was dx with TNBC she had genetic testing and the tests, those days, focused, solely on the BRCA mutation. Many other deleterious mutations have been discovered in the last decade and hopefully your testing includes those genes?
Good luck regarding your genetic testing results. Again, please try to speak to a Certified Genetic Counselor at Dana Farber about your results if you can get into see one quickly.
If a quick consult is not possible I work closely with a Certified Genetic Counselor in Chicago; he can do a remote consult (cost $250...may or may not be covered by insurance) and he can help you understand the results. Hopefully, he is not on vacation.
The other resource that might be important is a cancer legal rights attorney who founded a non-profit that may be able to help you regarding employment issues, There are no charges to talk with her and I could try to arrange that. There may be some way you can get a leave of absence for the upcoming term and be able to go back to your job post-treatment. My mother worked full-time after her mastectomy and during radiation therapy. It was a herculean effort on her part. You may be right that you can do a lumpectomy and 5.5 weeks of radiation therapy but it will be an ordeal in my opinion. The radiation therapy is normally very fatiguing and the fatigue which seem to be cumulative, often, doesn't stop when your sessions stop. The therapy often causes fatigue for several months after you complete it as it is still actively working to kill the cancer cells.
If you are up for it I would be happy to do a Zoom call with you and explain to you how I might be useful to you. There will be no charges from SAGE Patient Advocates or myself, personally, but I am not a medical professional, so I will not give you medical advice. Hopefully, I can be a good resource for you information-wise.
Please send me a PM with your contact information. I will send you my phone number.Alternatively you can write to me at contact@sagepatientadvocates.info
Good luck with everything. We are all rooting for you.
warmly,
Steve
------------- I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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Posted By: 123Donna
Date Posted: Dec 27 2020 at 12:30pm
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Hi Terri,
So glad you are getting another opinion at Dana Farber. It's always a good idea to get a couple of opinions from different facilities, especially if one is part of the NCCN network.
There is a grey area for chemo when the tumor is very small. Usually the cutoff is 0.5 cm or less and based on risk criteria. Please take a look at page 54, Guide #11 of the NCCN Guidelines for patients. In fact, you may want to read through the entire document as it is very informative for newly diagnosed patients.
https://www.nccn.org/patients/guidelines/content/PDF/breast-invasive-patient.pdf" rel="nofollow - https://www.nccn.org/patients/guidelines/content/PDF/breast-invasive-patient.pdf
Donna
------------- DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09) 11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15
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Posted By: Chessie
Date Posted: Dec 27 2020 at 5:48pm
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Thank you, Donna, for posting the Guideline document.
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Posted By: SagePatientAdvocates
Date Posted: Dec 27 2020 at 6:15pm
Dear Donna,
I second the emotion.
Thank you for being you,
Steve
------------- I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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Posted By: mom&grandma
Date Posted: Jan 04 2021 at 4:41pm
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hi Donna,
I am so happy to see you r still on this site helping people. You Steve and a few others were so helpful when my daughter started on her TNBC journey. You helped her in 2009-2010.
Thank you again!
------------- Bonnie, mom of Heather, age 32, Dx on 9/1/09 TN IDC Stage 1, 1.4 c, lumpectomy, 10/8/09, DD AC & T, 3/9/10 bilateral mastectomy and immediate reconstruction, BRCA 1/2-
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Posted By: SagePatientAdvocates
Date Posted: Jan 04 2021 at 6:04pm
Dear Bonnie,
Wishing you and your loved ones a Happy New Year.
Sooooo nice to hear from you.
Be well/safe.
warmly,
Steve
------------- I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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Posted By: 123Donna
Date Posted: Jan 05 2021 at 7:55am
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Hi Bonnie,
So good to hear from you! Hope you and Heather are doing well.
Hugs, Donna
------------- DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09) 11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15
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Posted By: joyjiang
Date Posted: Feb 24 2022 at 2:50pm
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My daughter just dignosed. She is 31. Can I ask why your daughter had a double BX after luptectomy?
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Posted By: SagePatientAdvocates
Date Posted: Feb 24 2022 at 3:59pm
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Dear joyjiang,
It's a long story but it may help you and others here to read it so I will share with you.
The story starts when my daughter was 25 years old. I was worried about all the cancer in my family on my maternal side-
My grandmother diagnosed at age 47 with ovarian cancer Her daughter (my mom) diagnosed with breast cancer at age 41 Her second daughter (my aunt) diagnosed with breast cancer at age 36 My aunt's youngest daughter diagnosed with cancer of the pancreas at age 39
I spoke to a Breast Surgical Oncologist and told him that I was worried about having a mutation that might have pre-disposed my relatives to getting various cancers.And most importantly, I was concerned for my daughters then aged 25 and 14. His response was "Steve, there is no reason for you to worry. Any mutation would be passed from mother to daughter. You don't have ovaries do you? Forget about it." Unfortunately, I believed him. His ignorance was probably because he never studied genetic mutations in medical school.
I shared the advice I had received with my daughter and told her I was very relieved and that she did not have to worry. I still feel bad about not seeking another opinion from another physician. My daughter spent the next 11 years doing zero surveillance instead of getting tested for a genetic mutation and doing surveillance as she should have.
Topping off the poor advice was the advice my daughter received from a major cancer center in NYC after she was diagnosed with TNBC. She was told to get a lumpectomy and the Breast Surgical Oncologist did not mention genetic testing or the option of getting genetically tested.
During my daughter's lumpectomy procedure the surgeon found more cancer and the surgery became a quadrantectomy which was a more extensive procedure in which the left quadrant below the nipple was removed.
After her procedure I spoke to another oncologist friend and told him about my experience with the Breast Surgical Oncologist and he said "Steve, you got very poor advice. Your daughter, based on your family history, probably has the BRCA mutation and she probably inherited the mutation from you. This is Genetics 101; Mendel and the peas. The mutation can 'go' from mother to daughter but can also go from mother to son and from son to daughter or from son to son. Your daughter should get tested for the mutation and if she has it she should have a BMX. And you are the carrler; your other children (I am the father of six, 4 boys and 2 girls) test for the mutation especially your younger daughter.
And my daughter tested and she was positive for the BRCA mutation and I tested and I was positive, too. I went back to the Breast Surgical Oncologist and slid my Myriad report across the desk to him. He looked at it and said nothing but turned beet red. After a very long minute or two he still had not said anything. I said "because of your poor advice my daughter did not do surveillance and now she has TNBC." Now he has turned scarlet but still has not spoken. I told him, "I am leaving you a copy of my genetic testing report and I hope you never tell another man that he cannot carry this mutation because he doesn't have ovaries." He nodded in silence and and with that, I left. What was missing, of course, was an apology.
My daughter, after her first surgery, went with me, to her Breast Surgical Oncologist and told her she had tested BRCA+ and that I had told her that the gold standard for women with BRCA mutations was to consider having bi-lateral mastectomies. And the surgeon said "of course I will do that for you." Missing, again, was why she never mentioned BRCA to my daughter to begin with. I found out later that this particular surgeon had never referred any of her patients for genetic testing because she was a 'breast conservationist' and didn't believe in mastectomies. I think she should have suggested testing for my daughter and if a positive result at least told her about a BMX as an option and also discuss the possibility of gynecologic surgery at some point. She should have given her options not just her personal views. Having said all of all of the above, I am not recommending that anyone here with TNBC should have a BMX but I do recommend that women get genetically tested for a deleterious gene mutation such as BRCA (there are many other mutations that have been identified in the last 18 years) and discuss the consequences of that with a Certified Genetic Counselor, a Breast Surgical Oncologist and a Breast Medical Oncologist and then decide what to do based on recommendations from their medical team. joyjiang, I do think it is a good idea for your daughter to get genetically tested but I will not give you or her any medical advice. I hope she tests negative for any deleterious mutation if she decides to test. The chance for a recurrence or a new primary in the contralateral breast is substantial for a woman with the BRCA mutation so many women opt for risk-reducing surgeries but some don't. It is a decision to be made with advice from your medical team and some women also seek second opinions. Also, for some unknown reason to researchers, it is my understanding about 70% of the time when you have breast cancer and carry the BRCA mutation your type of breast cancer is TNBC. The converse is not true. If you have TNBC you do not have a 70% chance of inheriting the BRCA mutation. I hope I have answered your question. Sorry my response was so long but the one thing for sure about me is that I would benefit from having a good editor in my life.  If you want to view some other aspects of my family's BRCA story you can go to
www.sagepatientadvocates.org and click on the BRCA video. I think it was filmed 10 years ago by Genetic Alliance and used as a tool for physicians to make them aware that men could carry a gene that causes breast and ovarian cancer. Sadly, I have been informed recently, that some doctors still are not aware.
with my love to all here,
Steve
------------- I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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Posted By: rickles
Date Posted: Feb 24 2022 at 6:44pm
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Steve, Thank you for sharing your story. I am sorry that you and your daughter had to go through this experience. I will keep her in my prayers. Your story demonstrates how important it is for people to be knowledgable about their condition and to keep up to date with the latest findings. We are our biggest advocates. Do not hesitate to ask your provider questions and if not satisfied with the response request a second opinion. I hope by sharing your story others will be helped. Sincerely, Diane
DX IDC, TNBC 8/2021 (age 65), Stage IIa Grade low, 2.2cm, 0/0 nodes, Lumpectomy & node dissection 8/18/2021, BRCA1&2 negative Chemo AC every 3 weeks for 12 weeks, completed 11/30/2021, Taxol once a week for twelve weeks, will finish March 10. Then radiation 5 times a week for 4 weeks.
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Posted By: joyjiang
Date Posted: Feb 28 2022 at 3:46pm
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Thank you, Steve, for sharing your story! and Thank you for helpinbg people out all these years! You are a role model.
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Posted By: Juil0909
Date Posted: Apr 13 2022 at 3:34am
Hi everyone, I am 47 yo and was dx with TNBC in January 2022 and have the BRCA2 gene mutation. The tumor was measured to be 1.7cm and no cancer found in lymph nodes.Stage 1 I was recommended to have neoadjuvant treatment before surgery but decided to go ahead with double mastectomy with nipple sparing reconstruction without doing the chemo first. I had surgery on March 16. After surgery they said the tumor was 2.2 cm and negative in nodes. So since the tumor was 2.2 they staged me as 2A. Now the doctors are saying I should definitely do chemo for 5 months as soon as I am healed from the surgery. I am looking for any advice and words of wisdom as I am still contemplating my decision with doing chemotherapy. I did see a radiology oncologist last week and he said he would not recommend radiation for me at this time, which is a huge relief.
Thank you for reading and I appreciate any insights.
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Posted By: joyjiang
Date Posted: Apr 13 2022 at 10:34am
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My understanding is chemo is the most critical for TNBC. The reason why doctors recommend chemo first is that allows them to find out whether and what regimen works.
BMX of course prevented cancer coming back in breasts. I would suggest you check whether chemo would prevent distant metastasis.
With BRCA 2, you need to find out the risk for ovarian cancer, if necessary take out ovaries preemptively. Ovarian cancer is often found late (Stage 3 /4) with bad prognosis.
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Posted By: rickles
Date Posted: Apr 13 2022 at 6:26pm
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Hi Juil0909, I was diagnosed with TNBC 8/2021. I had a lumpectomy, chemo and am currently finishing up my radiation treatments. It is my understanding that even with a double mastectomy and clear lymph nodes there is still the possibility that microscopic breast cancer cells could be left behind to travel through the rest of your body, liver, lungs, bone and lymph nodes. Once these cells grow outside the breast, the cancer is then metastatic with a poor prognosis. Medical oncologist rely heavily on chemotherapy to treat TNBC and eradicate any microscopic breast cancer cells that survived surgery. I hope this informations is helpful. I wish you all the best . Diane
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Posted By: cookie54
Date Posted: Apr 13 2022 at 9:16pm
Hi Juil0909, I had a BMX in 2016 and had clear lymph nodes Stage 1. I had chemo(A/C) post surgery and radiation was not needed . Four years later had a recurrence in my lymph nodes and chest wall, I am now Stage 3c. So I would not underestimate TNBC it can be aggressive! Microscopic cells can escape and hang out in our system without us knowing for quite sometime. It is so very important that you take every step to give yourself the best chance of eradicating it forever! Best wishes with your decision.
------------- 8/16,IDC,StageIA,Gr3,0/1 nodes ER-PR-HER2- 9/16 BMX,AC 6/20,StageIIIC,Gr3,ER-/PR-HER2- 6/20 Carbo/Gem/pembro 10/20 ALND 5/8 nodes,Rad x25 11/20 thyroid ca Xeloda2/21 Stage IV 6/22 lung mets
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Posted By: marlenad
Date Posted: Apr 18 2022 at 7:44pm
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Hi Cookie,
What is your current treatment? We almost have similar stories but I had a lumpectomy. So in 2018(stage 3 TNBC) I had chemo, then a lumpectomy in 2019, then radiation, then took Xeloda. I had a reoccurence as of TNBC 3/2022 opposite side in lymph nodes & chest wall.
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Posted By: cookie54
Date Posted: Apr 19 2022 at 7:44pm
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So I finished Xeloda 7/21 I am not on any chemo currently. However I think it's coming! My last three CT's of the chest show 3 enlarging lung nodules that radiologist is calling slow growing pulmonary metastasis. Unfortunately and fortunately they are to small to get a biopsy of yet. MO feels a wedge resection of the lung is too aggressive and wants to wait 3months to see if they are big enough to biopsy.
I'm sorry you are dealing with this beast again! What treatment are you on? Is it still considered a loco-regional recurrence?
------------- 8/16,IDC,StageIA,Gr3,0/1 nodes ER-PR-HER2- 9/16 BMX,AC 6/20,StageIIIC,Gr3,ER-/PR-HER2- 6/20 Carbo/Gem/pembro 10/20 ALND 5/8 nodes,Rad x25 11/20 thyroid ca Xeloda2/21 Stage IV 6/22 lung mets
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Posted By: Cindy in Tempe
Date Posted: Jun 04 2022 at 2:00pm
Hello, I am new here. And very confused about what to do. Reading your stories and histories is helping, but we're all different. Here's where I am.I have invasive ductal carcinoma, Grade 3. Don't have final lab results (ER-, PR-, HER2 pending), but I got the sense that my Oncologist expects HER2-. The CT showed no metastasis, no lymph node involvement, but there were already 2 lumps (one 2.1 cm, one 1.3 cm).
I am 67, had full mantle radiation treatment as part of Hodgkins in 1990. Also had MOPP chemo which is hard on the heart. He's noted that the A in chemo in the first phase of this treatment might be too much for my heart.
Beyond that, I'm not sure my body is strong enough to endure the treatment plan he outlined. I have Barrett's Esophagus, no spleen, reduced immune system function, have had ongoing skin cancers (from radiation 30+ years ago), and have pretty serious issues with my intestines (although muddling through without a major crisis, yet).
My Oncologist is ready to start chemo ASAP. Arranging to install a port, etc.
I could really use a discussion with a counselor, ideally with a good assessment of my physical condition before I commit to undergoing chemo. But I am not sure how to get that. And I don't know if it is even the right thing for me to pursue.
I'd love to muddle through for another 2-3 years on some kind of fairly easy chemo (as a friend did with his stage 4 lung cancer), but I'm not sure I'm ready to be put thru the ringer. Not sure my body would tolerate it, not sure some other cancer wouldn't flare up (Barrett's Esophagus is precancerous for a type of cancer that is pretty much not survivable). And I don't want to put my family thru it either - especially my husband.
My husband has serious lung issues, relies on me for care, and may not survive more than a couple of years, either. I would love to be here to help him thru his journey. (I know, sometimes we simply don't get to choose.)
I tried to get an appointment at the Mayo Clinic which is in town. But they haven't responded. I really just need good expert counseling right now.
Does anyone have any ideas on what to do?
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Posted By: SagePatientAdvocates
Date Posted: Jun 04 2022 at 2:17pm
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Hi Cindy,
Welcome to our forum that is populated by some very wonderful, supportive people.
I am a patient advocate and have helped many women on this site. I am not a medical professional and will not give you medical advice but I do have a lot of experience helping women with TNBC and I MAY be able to help you with a consult at Mayo in AZ.
If you would like to talk I could do a zoom with you later today (maybe around 4 or 5 pm).
Please send me a PM and give me your email address or send me an email at
info@sagepatientadvocates.org
I will be happy to set up a Zoom for later today. I am on vacation tomorrow through Wednesday with my family so later today would be best.
There are no charges for my services, personally and there will be no charges from SAGE Patient Advocates, either.
You can learn a bit about my work on
http://www.sagepatientadvocates.org" rel="nofollow - www.sagepatientadvocates.org
You have a complicated medical history and I agree a place like Mayo Clinic may be a good resource.
warmly,
Steve
------------- I am a BRCA1+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter inherited mutation from me, and at 36, was dx 2004 TNBC I am a volunteer patient advocate with SAGE Patient Advocates
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