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Hi Melanie,
I have just decided to ditch the cold cap and embrace the freedom of not having hair - for a while anyway! 
It will grow back, and I have a good wig!
 The insomnia really sucks. 
 What chemo regimen have they got you on?
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Melanie,

When I had chemo the first time, it tore up my stomach.  My onc had me on Pepcid-AC, but still I couldn't tolerate tomato or spicey foods, certain fruits like peaches, coffee, etc.  I joked that all I wanted/could eat was "white" food like vanilla yogurt, applesauce, turkey.  I'm a big coffee drinker and couldn't stand it during treatment.  The good news was once I finished chemo, I was able to eat my normal foods again. 
DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09)
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Laurarev,

I'm so sorry (and mad) that you are dealing with this medical issue because mistakes were made.  It seems like your new pulmonologist is on top of the situation and hopefully can get this problem resolved. 

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DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09)
11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15

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my nurses told me that the hair follicles donít stand a chance with the AC chemo... even with the ice cap. But I guess itís worth a try. I hope it works for you!

So, I saw the pulmonologist today. He is ordering another ct scan STAT. I will go first thing in the morning. He said there is a lot of blood still pooling around the lung. He took a chest X-ray in his office. He agrees that big mistakes were made. I should have had a pulmonologist consult and the blood should have been drained prior to chemo.  Now my immune system is compromised but we still have to deal with this immediately. He called my Oncologistís office and had them pull him from a patient to talk to him right away. Questioned him on everything. He does not think I was in any condition to start the chemotherapy last Monday, and heís unsure Iíll be ready for my second dose next week. He wants to read the new ct scan tomorrow and discuss it with my oncologist and then make a plan from there. He said the condition is severe and serious and the blood is abundant! He said one of the problems is I look young, healthy, pretty, and not in distress. My oxygen level is good... but internally Iím a mess. Stay tuned! 
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Hi strong together, 
Iím in north coast NSW. Very close! Sorry to hear about your diagnosis but great your scan is clear. I have just had my first chemo dose two days ago. Full on, went to work the next day very fatigued. However also suffering some insomnia which isnít helping. I am finding some foods are making my stomach acidic and uncomfortable. Has anyone found anything to avoid. Iím thinking of giving up my beloved coffee and Greek yogurt as well. I think it triggered it today. 
Let me know any tips. You are a little further along. Are you trying the ice cap? I am but I felt very unsettled with it. 
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Welcome Strongtogether,

This is a group no one wants to join, but hopefully you'll find this forum with useful information and support.  We understand all the emotions and physical issues you are going through.  Congrats on being half way through chemo!  Yes, I found fatigue was the biggest side effect from treatment.  It's hard to explain to others that haven't gone through chemo how exhausting you can feel.  I remember just walking up a flight of stairs felt like climbing a mountain.  It does get better once treatment ends. 

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DX IDC TNBC 6/09 age 49, Stage 1,Grade 3, 1.5cm,0/5Nodes,KI-67 48%,BRCA-,6/09bi-mx, recon, T/C X4(9/09)
11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15

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Hi Folks!
 45 year old mother of two here! I was recently diagnosed with TNBC. I was checking myself in the shower and felt something .... went to see my doctor and got an instant referral to the breast clinic. . . I live in Brisbane, which is a city on the East coast of Australia. 
 Those days between the diagnosis and seeing the breast surgeon seemed to last forever. I  reality it was only about four days. I had no idea what tnbc meant. My initial instinct was to have a double mastectomy. The surgeon gently guided me toward a single. The Cancer was quite fast growing and quite big - around 5 cm. Surgery day couldnt come soon enough.
 The sentinel lymph node biopsy came back positive, and now I was really scared. I had an axillary clearance and a CT-PET Scan. Thankfully both came back clear.
 I am now in the middle of chemotherapy. The initial plan is two months of dose dense (bi weekly) followed by 13 weekly sesions. After that it will be 12 weekly chemo sessions. 
I am not sure what to expect. I am finding it tough, no one said this would be a picnic. Its true that the medication's side effects of nausea are well controlled, bu I am feeling physically tired. Again, this is to be expected. 
 Lots of love and support to you all.

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Laura, have the doctors given you anything to help with the sickness and vomiting?  I had something called metoclopramide which worked well.

Also, don't forget (and I was told this by the professionals) that you won't necessarily get the same reaction to each session of chemo.  So let's hope that the next one won't have such nasty effects.

The pulmonologist would have some very clear views on how the problem with your lungs is treated.  I am glad that you are seeing one so quickly.  I had a marvellous pulmonologist (my problems were complicated by asthma which I have had for years) and the treatment I had from this doctor has truly turned my life around.  I am hoping that yours will give you treatment that will relieve your pain.

Be assured that we are thinking of you and continuing to have you in our prayers and hopes.

Lastly, thank you for updating us on your condition.  I was indeed wondering how you were getting along.  Take great care of yourself!  
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Laurarev,

How awful you are dealing with all these complications.  I hope the pulmonologist has some answers to help alleviate the pain.  Waiting for the body to absorb the excess blood doesn't seem like the ideal solution.  I agree that your compromised body is feeling the effects of chemo more so because of your situation.  Hope they can resolve the problem so you are not in so much pain.  Keep us posted.

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11/10 Recur IM node, Gem,Carb,Iniparib 12/10,MRI NED 2/11,IMRT Radsx40,CT NED11/13,MRI NED3/15

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you are doing great considering your extenuating am circumstances. Itís true you will feel the effects of chemo more if you arenít  100% to begin with.
2 books you should try are Rebuild by Dr. Z and Eating healthy with chemo. They are great reads and will help you focus on something besides the road bumps your having- and perhaps gain some tips to keep you strong 💪 
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thank you so much ladies... to all of you!! For your prayers, your advice, and sharing your stories. I am sorry for those of you that have also gone through pain, and I pray for all of you still in the midst of the chemo/ surgery journey. 🙏🏻  
Iím sure youíve all been wondering how Iím doing, I just couldnít even go on the forum, or the phone for that matter, Iíve had so much pain. I ended up starting the chemo last Monday, July 29th. I truly donít think my body was ready for it, having not healed from the hemothorax and pneumothorax. All the tests showed that there are no blood clots, but there is a very large amount of blood in the pleural cavity. All of the doctors involved have validated the extreme pain this causes, but they said we need to wait 4 weeks to several months for the body to naturally absorb the blood. My general practitioner suggests I see a pulmonologist tomorrow. He said she is the one who should really give the final answer as to how this should be handled.  The chemo kicked my ass... I guess because I was compromised already. Today is the first day I feel even remotely normal again, but still severe pain when taking a deep breath and a very sharp knife like pain in my right temple ear area that comes and goes. I can only sleep on my back in an upright position, so I am exhausted every day.  My oncologist had me on painkillers, but I kept getting a fever that was creeping towards the 100.4 cutoff so he said I had to stop them and take Advil and Tylenol instead. I was up all night Monday night, I guess from the steroids. Even though I took a melatonin and a Xanax (which at this point Iím taking every night along with cbd oil).  Nothing is helping. Wednesday I woke up with intense abdominal pain, diarrhea, and vomiting. Just so so sick on top of everything else. To hear someone even open a wrapper in the other room hurt my head. I hate to complain, and this is normally not how I am. I knew chemo was not going to be a walk in the park.... but this has been over the top. I truly think itís because I didnít go into it a healthy person as a result of the port surgery. 
Well, Iíll try to keep you all updated. Please keep saying your prayers for me as I will for all of you! ❤️🙏🏻
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Laura, I have just read your account of your port surgery and even all these miles away in France, I couldn't help shedding a tear for you!
I hope you are more comfortable today and that everything is improving.
My port surgery was horribly painful but NOTHING like yours!  I was told it would take 20 minutes but it ended up taking an hour.  Only local anaesthetic and I had to keep my head turned in the opposite direction the whole time.  The surgeon kept saying my veins were too small and he had to have 3 tries before finally putting it in at such an awkward angle that the thing used to dig and cause pain when I slept on that side. The local anaesthetic didn't last the whole hour and all he did was kept spraying some stuff on yet another site in my neck.
I too had an infection and I can feel all the fear come back, just thinking about it from reading your story.
For people asking about taking blood, etc, all my bloods were taken at home using veins in my arms the day before the next chemo.  But at the hospital, everything was done through the port.
One other thing to mention is that I didn't know about the numbing patches that you get to put on the port about an hour beforehand and then you feel no pain.  Unfortunately for me, I'd had 5 sessions before I discovered from a friend that I should have had the patches.  So I only had one single pain free puncture.  How I used to dread the chemo sessions!
I have had my port removed straight after the radiotherapy (33 sessions).  It bothered me the whole time I had it and the sight and feel of it reminded me of that theatre session.  After the removal, a dent and an angry-looking scar remained.  But now, just over a year later, the dent has filled out and the scar is not very noticeable anymore.
You have had such a scary and painful time, Laura, I just wanted to send you my very best wishes and I shall be thinking of you, especially in my prayers.

 

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Kellyjess - did they do your blood draws from your port with one stick then stick you again (port) for the infusion? I was wondering why I had an arm draw too when I heard many use the port but itís not been difficult to find a vein so I hadnít questioned it. Also I thought 2 port sticks within a half hour of each other would be weird too 🤷‍♀️
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Hi Laura- 2 books I have found really helpful are Staying healthy on chemo by Mike Hebert and Rebuild by Dr. Z. I donít think anyone commits to scientific data regarding food restrictions but the most consistent recommendations Iíve seen are plant based diets and limiting sugar. 
The only other thing I added a week before chemo started was full spectrum 2000 cbd oil (Amandahemp.com). I donít know that itís helping but Iíve had no nausea, no fatigue, no anxiety, no sleep issues (except the first night after infusions I take melatonin too because the steroids hype me up).
I know youíre experiencing a lot of other issues too but maybe these few things will give you a little relief, or at the very least something to focus on that you have control over since there are a many things you canít control right now.
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hi Anne, 
I too was recently diagnosed. I had a lumpectomy and removal of lymph node. Clear margins and I start chemo Monday the 5th. Here goes!!
Good luck to you, keep us posted. 
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hey Laura, 
That is so horrible. I canít imagine what you are dealing with. 
Just chemo is enough. Let me know how you are tracking and when you start. We seem to be going through the same treatment at the same time. Nice to have a journey pal. 
I have had my planning and will be starting dose dense AC-T on Monday 5th of August. 
I am not having a port as yet. 
Just concerned about one margin which was only cleared by 0.01mm. The oncologist is getting a second opinion. 
Iím going to try the ice cap to keep my hair, not sure if it will work though or if I can tolerate it. Hair seems a big deal but in the grand scheme itís probably not. 
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forgot to mention that the cardiologist has not had a chance to read the ultrasound from this morning yet, but they were looking for a pseudo aneurysm, thrombosis, or occlusion.  Although the oncologist said even if the report finds any of those itís going to be unrelated to the pleural cavity pain I feel now and the fever 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
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thank you for the concern ladies! I barely slept last night. Unbelievable pain on the left side where the pleural cavity is filled with blood. I went to the 7am appointment for the vascular ultrasound tech to check the jugular. I sat there whimpering in pain with tears streaming down my face. How am I going to start chemo on Monday when Iím in so much pain? Now I have a fever of 100.8. I called the oncologist who is trying to reach the port surgeon (the 1st one who encountered the weird anatomy)  heís in surgery right now so the oncologist said sit tight while he keeps attempting to take to him. Iím going to have to go back to the hospital for another chest X-ray, something is wrong 😢. Oh and by the way, I donít think I should have a fever at all being that Iíve been on cipro the past 9 days for a little infection I developed at the incision site of my lumpectomy 
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OMG Laura,.that's just a nightmare! In my 10 years being a part of the cancer community that's the worst port complication  story I've ever heard. I can't imagine the horror of waking from a "simple" routine procedure and having to grasp all of that! I'm so very sorry this is happening to you. If this were me, I would want another surgeon, one completely not attached to this doctor or hospital, to do a full review of what has happened. I'd want to meet with her, and have her explain what she sees as happened, what she understands is your anatomy and what he did to it. Just.....because. Because I'd want to know For Sure going forward what happened to me and WHY. Hopefully you'll now do chemo &  radiation without incident, but I'm the poster child of You Never Know For Sure what your medical future will bring. You're bound to have some hospital and surgery PTSD going forward, in my experience knowledge is power over that condition. (I have it from my surgical nightmare and 9 months of wound care resulting from it) keep us updated on what's happening, I'll be thinking of you.
PS: to everyone getting a port - this is normally a very quick, simple procedure. I've had two ports. Pretty much zero pain, from post surgery to removal. I never even had a smidge of discomfort having it accessed, and both times they used them for ALL blood draws, IVs and infusions. 
PSS: WHY are so many ladies having blood draws from their arms when they have ports lately??? I've spoken to several lately that even on infusion days they draw blood from their veins, AND access the port for infusion?? The whole point of the port is to save your veins, and not make holes in you while you're anemic, lack an immune system or barely have any platelets left making you a bleed risk? Even at the hospital, when I went to the ER chemo sick they called a port certified nurse down from the cancer floor to access my port for the IV! One person's theory is the clinics are too cheap to have nurses in their labs that can do the access, using cheap phlebotomists instead? I just don't get it.
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6/1/16 Local recurrence same breast, same spot 1.8cm Carb.4x every 3 wks, Taxol 12x once wk. Dbl Mast. PCR!! Reconstruction fail, NED!
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Oh Laura, I've never heard of that complication with the port surgery.  It sounds so dangerous.  I hope they can resolve the issues so you can come home soon.  Please keep us posted.  We are worried about you.

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