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Lisa L
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Topic: sunbearz Posted: Sep 18 2009 at 12:50pm |
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I am sad to share the news that Jill Haines, who posted as sunbearz passed this morning. She fought hard for almost 12 years as stage IV. May she rest in peace.
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Dx 8/05 age 43
mast & lat flap 10/05
Triple neg
BRCA neg
IDC 4.5cm rt br
0/1 sen node
6 A/C 5 Taxol, 25 rads 11/05-6/06
Central Illinois
Currently NED
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Nancy
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Posted: Sep 18 2009 at 2:15pm |
Dear Lisa,
Oh no....not another dear sister. Jill wanted to swim with the manatees last year. I don't think she ever had that chance. I am just so sad.....she was so sweet and kind and always posting to help everyone. Bless her dear soul, now she can finally rest in peace.
Love,
Nancy
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DD Lori dx TNBC June 13,2007
Lumpectomy due to incorrect dx of a cyst
mastectomy July 6 2007
chemo ACT all 3 every 3 weeks 6 tx Aug-Nov
28 rads ended Jan 2008
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trip2
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Posted: Sep 18 2009 at 2:30pm |
Lisa,
I am so broken hearted to read about Jill. Thank you so much for letting us know. 
Dear Jill sometimes I do not understand. You will forever be in my heart, I will miss you so much. 
Her children were both planning weddings. This just can't be, I love ya Jill, be at peace.
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Stage 2 2003
Stage 1 2007
BRCA 1+
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Posted: Sep 19 2009 at 12:33pm |
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Does anyone know Jill's family name or address so I can send a card.
You're right sh*tty news
English jan
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FL. 54 yrs
DX LIDC 8/18/07. 08/23/07 Lump+SNB Node -ve. T2.5cms clear margins,
TNBC, Stage 2A Grade 3. 9/18/07 TX Cytoxan+Taxotere.Neulasta.4x3
wks.Rads 30+5 FINISHED 28th Jan 2008.
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MaryinSarasota
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Thanks Denise,
No words.. just in awe of the voracity/audacity of this.
Love, Mary
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Dx 5/08 Stage 1, grade 3, IDC 1.6 cm, high-grade carcinoma in situ, 0
nodes, TNBC, lumpectomy, chemo TAC six rounds, radiation 34 treatments
Finished December 18, 2008
NED-May 2009
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DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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Posted: Sep 19 2009 at 12:34pm |
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Yes, please PM me and I will give any of you Jill's address.
I posted this news this morning in the mets/recurrence forum and
Lisa posted last evening in the Tribute Section...... such an
incredible woman.
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Stage 2 gr 3 dx 12/02
Stage 1 gr 3 dx 2/07
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dmwolf
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Jill had such a huge impact on so many women's lives, here and
elsewhere. She was such a fighter, so full of love and life and
humor. She could be counted on to encourage us when we were feeling
low, to offer compassion and wisdom when we needed it, and to kick up
her heels and laugh if something struck her as funny. She kept
reaching for what is real, finding beautiful reasons to live with gusto
even as her symptoms multiplied and her body failed her. She was a
beacon to all who knew her, a real tower of strength. She never gave
up, and encouraged all of us to savor our lives and NEVER GIVE UP.
These I think were her parting words to the women at Komen. At death's
door, she wanted us to hear this message on the sanctity of life, the
preciousness of the souls inhabiting our bodies. We are not our
bodies, she would say. Not our hair, not our cancers, nor our physical
forms. We are the souls that reside within, visiting this beautiful
planet.
Rest in peace, Jill. It sucks beyond comprehension that you, or any woman, had to lose your life to this disease.
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DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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Posted: Sep 20 2009 at 7:38am |
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Jill's family
Deepest Sympathy.
Wendy |
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dx 3/06 TN, taxotere/cytoxin x4; radiation x 40; mets. to lungs, lymph nodes 3/08 - to begin chemo 4/29/08 Abx/Avas., 9/08 Avastin maintenance, 1/09 - off meds to see if Avastin causing headaches |
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BrendaF Senior Member
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I just saw this this morning on Facebook. So, so sorry to Jill's family. |
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Dx 2005 2 cm, 5/12 nodes, A/C + T, 28 rads. Dx mets 12/07 mediastinal and supraclavicular nodes, carbo + taxotere X 6. brain, lymph, pleura, bone mets. Started Xeloda 8/24/09 |
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Nancy
DD Lori dx TNBC June 13,2007
Lumpectomy due to incorrect dx of a cyst
mastectomy July 6 2007
chemo ACT all 3 every 3 weeks 6 tx Aug-Nov
28 rads ended Jan 2008
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Posted: Sep 20 2009 at 7:43am |
rena Groupie
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Hi everyone. I'm sorry, I don't have an address for Jill's family. We asked one of the Komen administrators, Zach, to set up a page so that we could make donations in Jill's name. Komen sent her a card when she was in Hospice (I hope she got it) telling her about this, as she was always saying that if everyone gave a dollar, there'd be enough money to finally find a cure. If only that were true. If anyone wants to donate--even a dollar--in her honor or memory, here is the link: http://ww5.komen.org/donate/donateonline.html. Jill was an amazing woman who didn't believe in giving up. And still, when she knew it was time, she let go with grace. Rena |
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Diagnosed 9/86. 1 cm tumor, 22 positive lymph nodes. CMFVP chemo, weekly for one year. 7 weeks radiation. BRCA2-positive. Multiple attempts at reconstruction |
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Nancy
DD Lori dx TNBC June 13,2007
Lumpectomy due to incorrect dx of a cyst
mastectomy July 6 2007
chemo ACT all 3 every 3 weeks 6 tx Aug-Nov
28 rads ended Jan 2008
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Lisa L
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Posted: Sep 24 2009 at 12:15pm |
Here is a link to Jill's obituary as well as a place to leave condolences
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Dx 8/05 age 43
mast & lat flap 10/05
Triple neg
BRCA neg
IDC 4.5cm rt br
0/1 sen node
6 A/C 5 Taxol, 25 rads 11/05-6/06
Central Illinois
Currently NED
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Posted: Sep 26 2009 at 10:30am |
Thank you Lisa so much for providing this link.
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Stage 2 2003
Stage 1 2007
BRCA 1+
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