Miriam, sister of Judy Hajdenwurcel

I have Judy Hajdenwurcel's permission to start this thread in memory and honor of her sister, Miriam.


Posted by Judy Hajdenwurcel 1/9/13 7pm on another thread:

Hajdenwurcel wrote: Judy (grateful for today) wrote and gave me directions about this forum and I want to take this opportunity to remember my sister Miriam who had lost her battle against triple negative in October 2010 after 2 years fighting. My family was only her and when I received the notice that she had cancer in end of 2008 was a shock for me!!!!!She discovered  late and I knew at this moment that she will die and with my sadness I spent all the time I had during the 2 years with her. 2 months and half before she died I was diagnosed also with TNBC and was too much for me.Today almost 2,5 years ned I am always thinking that my sister could be with me with the same chances!!!!But life is not so easy!!!!She had courage, she helped all during the chemotherapy treatments and until the last minute she gave me support and I remember one day before to come to hospital Miriam told me: Judy WE will win this battle!!!!She knew that she was loosing the battle but she want to give me courage, I was after my first session of chemotherapy!!!!She always awl talking to me by phone and after instead to say good bay she always was saying JUDY P.S. TE AMO (In portuguese), I love you!!!So I want to say now MIRIAM PS. I LOVE YOU!!! and you continue to give me courage together our parents in other life and the minimum I can do  is follow the example of life you, Mammy and PAPPY gave me in this life!!!!Missing you always!!!!!!

Judy ,

May your sister, Miriam, rest in Eternal Love and Peace.

One can easily tell you were a source of love, care and support for your sister.
I cannot begin to imagine what it was like to be supporting one's sister.......and then while
supporting her to receive a breast cancer diagnosis oneself. Judy, you are a strong women.

Sincere sympathy.
Hoping in your heart, you can hear her continuing to say:   Judy, P.S., Te amo (I love you).


With caring and supportive thoughts,
Grateful for today............Judy

Judy,

Judy, I've only read your story just now and it pains me to hear that Miriam was your sister and only family that you had. Life is difficult to understand from our limited perspective, but we need to remember that sometimes the  best can be brought out in us when we are facing our most difficult tests. I hope that you can find the comfort and support you need through this site and through interactions with people, whatever form those interactions may come in. May your sister Miriam rest in peace and be a continuing inspiration to you. God bless!

Dear Judy,