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    Posted: Sep 18 2009 at 12:50pm
I am sad to share the news that Jill Haines, who posted as sunbearz passed this morning.  She fought hard for almost 12 years as stage IV.  May she rest in peace.
Dx 8/05 age 43
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Dear Lisa,
 
Oh no....not another dear sister. Jill wanted to swim with the manatees last year. I don't think she ever had that chance. I am just so sad.....she was so sweet and kind and always posting to help everyone. Bless her dear soul, now she can finally rest in peace.
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Lisa,
 
I am so broken hearted to read about Jill.  Thank you so much for letting us know.Cry
 
Dear Jill sometimes I do not understand.  You will forever be in my heart, I will miss you so much.Heart
 
Her children were both planning weddings.  This just can't be, I love ya Jill, be at peace.
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Quote English%20Jan Replybullet Posted: Today at 2:47am
Does anyone know Jill's family name or address so I can send a card.

You're right sh*tty news

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DX LIDC 8/18/07. 08/23/07 Lump+SNB Node -ve. T2.5cms clear margins, TNBC, Stage 2A Grade 3. 9/18/07 TX Cytoxan+Taxotere.Neulasta.4x3 wks.Rads 30+5 FINISHED 28th Jan 2008.
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Thanks Denise,

No words.. just in awe of the voracity/audacity of this.

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Dx 5/08 Stage 1, grade 3, IDC 1.6 cm, high-grade carcinoma in situ, 0 nodes, TNBC, lumpectomy, chemo TAC six rounds, radiation 34 treatments
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DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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Quote trip2 Replybullet Posted: Today at 1:32pm
Yes, please PM me and I will give any of you Jill's address.
 
I posted this news this morning in the mets/recurrence forum and Lisa posted last evening in the Tribute Section...... such an incredible woman.
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Quote dmwolf Replybullet Posted: Today at 5:28pm
Jill had such a huge impact on so many women's lives, here and elsewhere.  She was such a fighter, so full of love and life and humor.  She could be counted on to encourage us when we were feeling low, to offer compassion and wisdom when we needed it, and to kick up her heels and laugh if something struck her as funny.  She kept reaching for what is real, finding beautiful reasons to live with gusto even as her symptoms multiplied and her body failed her.  She was a beacon to all who knew her, a real tower of strength.  She never gave up, and encouraged all of us to savor our lives and NEVER GIVE UP.  These I think were her parting words to the women at Komen.  At death's door, she wanted us to hear this message on the sanctity of life, the preciousness of the souls inhabiting our bodies.  We are not our bodies, she would say.  Not our hair, not our cancers, nor our physical forms.  We are the souls that reside within, visiting this beautiful planet.

Rest in peace, Jill.  It sucks beyond comprehension that you, or any woman, had to lose your life to this disease. 

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DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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Quote Wendy2 Replybullet Posted: Today at 8:16am
Jill's family
Deepest Sympathy.
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dx 3/06 TN, taxotere/cytoxin x4; radiation x 40; mets. to lungs, lymph nodes 3/08 - to begin chemo 4/29/08 Abx/Avas., 9/08 Avastin maintenance, 1/09 - off meds to see if Avastin causing headaches
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Quote BrendaF Replybullet Posted: Today at 9:53am
I just saw this this morning on Facebook.  So, so sorry to Jill's family.
Dx 2005 2 cm, 5/12 nodes, A/C + T, 28 rads.
Dx mets 12/07 mediastinal and supraclavicular nodes, carbo + taxotere X 6.
brain, lymph, pleura, bone mets. Started Xeloda 8/24/09
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mastectomy July 6 2007
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Quote rena Replybullet Posted: Today at 12:01pm
Hi everyone. I'm sorry, I don't have an address for Jill's family. We asked one of the Komen administrators, Zach, to set up a page so that we could make donations in Jill's name. Komen sent her a card when she was in Hospice (I hope she got it) telling her about this, as she was always saying that if everyone gave a dollar, there'd be enough money to finally find a cure. If only that were true. If anyone wants to donate--even a dollar--in her honor or memory, here is the link: http://ww5.komen.org/donate/donateonline.html. Jill was an amazing woman who didn't believe in giving up. And still, when she knew it was time, she let go with grace. Rena
Diagnosed 9/86. 1 cm tumor, 22 positive lymph nodes. CMFVP chemo, weekly for one year. 7 weeks radiation. BRCA2-positive. Multiple attempts at reconstruction
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mastectomy July 6 2007
chemo ACT all 3 every 3 weeks 6 tx Aug-Nov
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Lisa L Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 24 2009 at 12:15pm
Here is a link to Jill's obituary as well as a place to leave condolences
 
Dx 8/05 age 43
mast & lat flap 10/05
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BRCA neg
IDC 4.5cm rt br
0/1 sen node
6 A/C 5 Taxol, 25 rads 11/05-6/06
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Thank you Lisa so much for providing this link.

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