asking for support for Pam

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   Dear TNBCF family,

One of the most special things for me this past year was meeting Pam (trip2). We met in July about an hour outside Dallas. We had dinner with her husband and one of her daughters (who by the way is also BRCA1+). 

I joined TNBCF in April and was welcomed by many here (thank you all). I have been on this planet for almost 66 years and I can honestly say that Pam's devotion to TNBCF has deeply impressed me. For much of the time since April, Pam has been going through a lot. She has had two bouts with TNBC and her treatment and the cancer have taken a toll on her.

She rarely complains....she just keeps doing research for all of us and also consistently posts support for all in her special, caring way. She is a gem. Meeting her just reinforced the impression of her that I had formed via her postings and emails/phone calls. When I called her from Dallas airport to tell her I was on my way to the restaurant she said "you be careful (driving)." and when I left at night, as did her daughter she said the same to both of us. That I think sums Pam up. She is always thinking of the next person, first, and does so with intelligence and a warm heart.

She is having risky surgery a week from today and I know it may seem slightly early to start expressions of support but I feel, somehow, that it is important to do so now so that she may feel our love that reciprocates the love and concern she has showered on so many of us. I believe our support will make her stronger and more able to endure what she will be going through.

This thread is my idea. I asked Pam permission yesterday to do it. She had no idea what I would say but told me that she was looking forward to our support. She is anxious over this surgery and will probably have to be on a ventilator for awhile afterwards. Her daughter has promised to keep me informed on her recovery and I will keep everyone posted.

So here goes...the first of what I hope will be many positive vibrations sent to our dear Pam-

M-My prayers are with you
Y-You are one of the most special individuals I have ever met

P-Please know that I pray for you every day
R-Remember you are truly loved by our TNBCF family
A-All of us have benefited from all your hard work. Thank you
Y-Your intelligence shines through on every post
E-Each of us carries hardship in our own way. You have done so with grace
R-Remember you are truly loved by our TNBCF family
S-Seems you have found a special niche in my heart

F-Family is what TNBCF is about
O-Oh, if I had a magic wand
R-Remember you are truly loved by our TNBCF family

P-Perhaps you are blushing a but? That's o.k. It's all true
A-A successful surgery and smooth recovery is what I wish for you
M-May you receive the giant cyber-hug I am sending you with the love I have for you

in your corner, always,

Steve