Oncologist

Not sure where I should post haven't posted in a while, but thought this was the best place!!! I had mammogram and appointment with oncologist (nurse practitioner) last month due to bone pain, headaches, dizziness, palpatations and shortness of breath the NP ordered a CT scan, bone scan and echo. I went in for follow up for those tests and found out the NP was no longer there (I established a relationship with her since diagnosis) so I saw the oncologist which I had only seen 2 times prior. She was very rude and dismissive of me and my concerns, the NP had ordered a MRI due to me finding a lump in my other breast which the NP thought was a cist but to ease my mind she was having me do an MRI but while doing breast exam she found new "lumpy" area so she really wanted an MRI, had to send in approval through Medi-Cal.....my oncologist totally dismissed that and stated "you don't need it" I asked her about what the NP found and she said again "you don't need it it's just a cist" she didn't even due the exam yet!!!!! All she kept telling me was to MOVE ON!!! and since I was only diagnosed at stage 1 I "probably" would not have recurrence!!!! I then asked her on my way out if I needed to schedule follow up in 3 months (they told me from beginning I would have follow up every 3 months for 2 years) she said "No I don't need to see you until September". I was so angry and frustrated when I left that appointment I just sat in my car and cried. She just kept telling me I needed to move on. She also told me all the tests I had done were "pointless"....OMG REALLY!!!! Well a few days later her office called me and said they were referring me to a cardiologist, I asked why and she said something was found on my Echo.....REALLY and the doctor told me it was "pointless".