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    Posted: 24 Apr 2010 at 10:41am
I just heard on facebook that Patty died.  This was one heck of a woman, really joyful and positive through all she endured (over a very short period - this was TNBC at its most vicious).   This woman had a LOT of friends, just tons of people who adored her.  She worked at DisneyLand and considered her co-workers part of her extended family in joy.

I'll post some of the comments people left on her facebook wall after she died.  A veritable outpouring of love.

sorrowfully yours,
Denise
DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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Oh Denise, how very sad.  It seems like we were just recently talking to her!
 
When is this going to stop!Broken Heart
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Stage 1 2007
BRCA 1+
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Dear Denise and all,

I am stunned and deeply, deeply saddened at this news. 

I received an email on April 17th from Patty..

We never met but I really felt that I knew her and she was an extraordinarily lovely woman. As I typed "never met" it is hard to realize that we never will. and when I got to "felt", "knew" and "was" in the previous sentence my fingers started to shake...

My heartfelt sympathies are with her family. 

I hate this disease and pray....and pray.....and pray for a better future for all those here and future generations...

I am crushed by this news...Denise, thank you for letting us know...

It feels strange sharing her words here but I think it is a tribute to who she was as a person so I would like to share her recent words, to me, with my TNBCF family. Despite all the grief she was going through she reached out to me to thank me and send her love. I responded sending her my love....I think her words really sums up our family. Most of us have never met each other yet the love and support is there. 

a piece of my heart is broken today..

rest in peace, dear Patty,

Steve

Thanks for caring for someone you have never even met.
 
Love to you and yours
Patty




I am a BRCA1(187delAG)+ grandson, son and father of women affected by breast/oc-my daughter, inherited the mutation from me, and at age 36, was dx 2004 TNBC
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I am so sorry to hear this news about Disneygirl.  This disease is just too unfair.  We fight, we hope, we poison ourselves, we hope, we try to heal, we fight constantly to smack down the daily fear it creates in us, and again - we hope- and for what and why?  I am so devastated for her family.  May God be with them - and with all of us.
 
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Diag 2/23/09 IDC 1.2 cent. IDC right breast,Stage 1, Grade 3,0/1 nodes - Triple Neg
4 DD AC every two weeks, 1 Dd Taxol, then 3 Taxotere every three weeks - rads x 33
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Oh Denise thank you for letting us know about Patty, Our Disney Girl!
 
I am so sorry to hear that this horrible disease has taken another angel home....
It was not too long ago we were reading her posts about work, family and all that she loved....
I am reaching out to her family now to say I am really sorry for the loss of your Patty!
God Bless you all, Helen in Nova Scotia Canada
Diag@57TNBC04/092.5cm Lquad 05/09 TCx4Radsx30CT03/01/10 FU03/31/10ClearBRCA- 01/2011 RTNBC BMX 06/14/2011~2013 clear
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I was re-reading some of Patty's posts. Back in March when she let us know how much pain she was in with the neck tumors; broke my heart. She was a lovely person and will be truly missed. I am sorry that it took death to get her out of all that pain. I also hate this disease and the physical and emotional pain it brings to families.

Love in Christ,

Lillie
Dx 6/06 age 65,IDC-TNBC
ST-IIb,GR3,2cm,BRCA-
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6/06 Axl. 9 nodes-
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From FB:

istin Hartsfield Martin What a treasure heaven has gained . Sweet, loving, selfless, strong, courageous funny, PATTY. You have made the world a better place simply by being you.
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Pat Jones Dearest P1, I can remember if it was just yesterday when I started worked at The Mouse House. You helped train me in a ticket booth along with Janice Stellabolt! Once you found out that our birthdays were days apart we became kindred spirits joking about how we would celebrate our birthdays. I love the stories of you a...
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Debbie Rogers Merced Patty, I loved working with your for 13 years and all of the laughter we shared. You will be missed my friend..say hi to Rudy!
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Susie King Debbie, I can see and hear the two of them going back and forth cann't you!
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Robyn Schatz Sarvis Oh, sheesh. That's one heck of a combination! Look out! :)
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Kim Felling Lowman Patty, My heart goes out to your family. Although we've not seen each other since high school, I've been painfully aware of your courageous fight through our FB friends and have prayed for a miracle. I know the Lord will keep you in his arms and give comfort to your family with the passing of time. I wish I had the cha...
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Jackie Schulkey Gilhausen Patty, I have known you for almost 22 years. And you were a dear friend from the day we met. You are compassionate, strong, upbeat and positive. And even in the darkest of hours you only thought of others. You never gave up! I love you and will miss you dearly.
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Wanda Garms Eight years ago I started working in the ticket booths. Everone kept asking me if Patty wasn't sister. They said we sounded the same, gestered the same, etc. One day I was working the window, turned around and foundt Patty staring at me along with half a dozen other people. In typical Pattyism.... She turned to every...
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Barb Susan The Services for Patty will be held:

Wednesday, April 28 , 2010

First Evangelical Free Church of Fullerton
2801 North Brea Blvd. Fullerton, California 92835
(714) 529-5544

Viewing: 12:30pm - 1:00pm
Service and Grave Side: 1:00pm - 4:00pm
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Erin Kull Wagner I'm so sorry I won't be able to be there - I'll be in Seattle on business. Love and hugs to all who attend.
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Melinda Cruz Thank you for the info...
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Barb Susan David Sobolsky to all our Family and Friends, My Wife, Best Friend, and Mother to our Beautiful Children lost her courageous battle this past Thursday. We would all like to Thank You for your prayers, thoughts, and helping her thru this past year. We Love and Thank You all from the bottom of our Hearts. Thank You for Everything. Love the Sobolsky's
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Kevin Toomey Would that it were so easy to bring YOU back! We miss you terribly, Patty!

Kevin
Kevin just revived your crops and made your farm pretty for you to see!
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Judit Young Patty, you are greatly missed, you touched so many lifes. God knew to put you in a job where you were able to impact positivly so many. You were just so full of life, fun, laughter, made so many friends. You trained me with Vicky at my job at Disneyland. I always enjoyed your company, it was fun to be around you. I'm...
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Sue Scheibler Patty, you were one of my first friends at Dland oh so many, many years ago, and the first person to find me on FB. I still remember training you as a working lead and cracking up all day long, and all those following days when we worked together. Happy journey dear sweet spirit. My life is so much brighter for having ...
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Adam de Jesus I am fortunate to have worked with Patty, laughed with Patty, enjoyed many beautiful days outside with Patty. The memories of our time together will always make me smile...
I love you Patty!
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Denise M. Wolf Could someone please either post her obit on here or message it to me? I'd like to add it to a tribute page for her on TNBCF, an online community she was a part of (for women dealing with triple negative breast cancer).
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Michelle Lau Reynoso her service info was posted. perhaps her church has more info??
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Richard Sui Although I only worked with Patty for 1.5 years at the ME 15 years ago, we managed to stay in touch. I will always remember what a kind and wonderful woman she was. She was an incredible leader and friend to me and I feel blessed to have known her. She made my first job a great experience with her kindness and advice about life. I will miss you dearly
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Robin Devine Thank you for being my friend, for being strong, funny and never backing down. Your battle was a constant inspiration to me. I will miss you and my thoughts and prayers go out to your family and close friends. Now, your with our Lord and cancer free! You will be missed by all you know you!!
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Denise M. Wolf Oh my gosh, I can't believe this. Triple negative BC at its most vicious. Patty, you were so positive and courageous through everything you endured. For you and all of us and all the women to come, I'll do my best to work toward a cure.
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Kristina Bonbrake Patty, you have been so typically Patty through this ordeal: upbeat, positive and still laughing. I admire your courage and am thankful to have known you. You helped my through a tough time in my life and I am forever grateful.
To your family, I send sincere sympathy for your loss and hope you find strength from all th...
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Melinda Cruz Patty, I love you...Thank you for being my friend...You are no longer in any pain...Pray for all of us left behind....I WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH MY DEAR FRIEND....My heart is broken...
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Kelly McMahon Thank you for being such a wonderful friend to my Mom! We'll miss you Patty! Love Kelly
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Julie Debevec Patty you were a very strong woman and I am sure God has many plans for you, but everyone here is missing you and I am sure that you knew how many people cared for you, I only wish that I had that chance to meet you face to face, but I will miss you just the same, may God bless your family and help them to get through ...
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Cynthia Serapin Patty, Thursday I put this 'Angel of Love' in the mail to you. Possibly she will bring a little comfort to your family. You will be missed. May beautiful memories of you live in the hearts of your family and friends.

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Maria Ortiz Hall ♥ ♥ Patty ♥ ♥ Thank you for making me smile. You are missed and you will always be loved and cherished. Love you.
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Kristy Carpenter-Samuel I lost a great friend to cancer yesterday and a second Mom to me from my Disney days. You will be missed deeply Patty. My heart goes out to your family. Heaven just received one special spunky angel!
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Shaun Gray Patty...you fought this cancer like the amazing woman that you are. I am very happy to know that you are no longer in pain and that heaven absolutely has an angel up there. You taught me a great deal when I was in Main Entrance, and I will never forget that. It was a pleasure knowing you. Main Entrance will never b...
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Karen Ruth Margaret Peckham She was there for us when we all started working there. She was a fun and wonderful person.
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Ingrid Mariano Oh she would so own GC at the Pearly Gates. And she'd have even more fun... can you imagine... Patty doing GC... with WINGS!
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Barb Susan A special breakfast for you today: A plate of Love, a bowl of Peace, a spoon of Hope, a fork of Care, and a glass of Joy, now enjoy your breakfast sent from Heaven To feed your soul.

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DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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Denise Gibson Patty, you will be missed dearly. You probably did not realize at the time how many lives you touched, now you probably have a good idea. You fought the "good" fight against this "Cancer". You gave it the Strong Fight but now you are pain free. My prayers may have silenced for you but have transferred even more now to ...
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Rita Jo Smith Leave it to you Patty to come up with another "P" for your repetoire. "Pearly Gate Patty". I know you are helping St. Peter with awesome crowd control and have the queues managed with minimal wait times. Your keys are jangling as you ensure proper entry. No scalpers allowed, all will be permantly 602'd. Save us a good ...
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Lori Zager Dominguez Well stated Rita Jo -- no kidding !! She is definately helping St. Peter now.
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Danielle Robinson Well said Rita this is so true
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Pamela Berry Worthy Oh Patty you will be so missed. I have never met such a courageous, caring person as you. You were one in a million. You are in a better place and no longer in pain and for that I am glad but your passing is a devastating loss for the rest of us. You have touched many hearts…
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Shirley Ann Keidser What a wonderful family and friend you have been to us all. There is great sadness with your leaving so soon; you had so much more to do and give. I continue to pray for you and your family; God Bless and keep you baby girl....
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Jeffrey Tysor Patty, I will never forget you or the fun times we had working together many years ago. I still laugh to this day at your humor and comments. You were always a real treat to work with. You will be missed!!!!!!!
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Rochelle Kahalnick We lost a great friend and a true icon at the Main Entrance. My heartfelt condolences go out to her Family, Friends, and her Disneyland Family. Patty will be missed greatly, but her memory will be endless. She was my counterpart and partner in crime in the Esplanade with she working days, me working nights, and us si...
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In this note:Patty Sobolsky
YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE
Whenever I needed someone to talk to You were always there. My eyes filled with tears, my heart filled with pain, and You were always there. There was no time when I had doubt...
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Susie King I cannot even say how I feel. This last 10 months we have FB and texted through so many things together. My heart aches for your family and for all of us here. I will miss you beyond belief.
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Coleen Hagenson oh, Patty... I so hoped for your miracle. your humor and courage will forever be remembered by everyone who was lucky enough to have known you. my thoughts are of you ... and with Dave, Michelle, and Jeff.
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Roberto Ayala Thank you Patty, for everything. You probably never knew it and I'm sorry I never fully expressed my gratitude..thanks to you Patty, you got me cross trained as a ticket taker. You were the only one who heard my plee and cries about getting crossed trained. You pulled me from my booth shift and took me to downtown disn...
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Bernice Loya Patty!!! You will be missed in everyones hearts! it was great working with you these past years..but now your in a wonderful place!!! :) i hope they have facebook up there :) so u can read all these wonderful messages from everyone.
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Alma Mendoza patty, i just had the best time working with u at the main entrance...all the time i can say that some of my memories at disney were the time we had to do "guest control"when we had to gard the car at the main entrance ...u were one of the lead that made that day in the sun go by so fast and had so much fun !thx patty!
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Lynn Greenlee Price Patty, you will be missed by so many! Heaven must have needed another angel. May God wrap your family in his arms and give them the courage they will need in the days ahead.
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Nicholas R Mendoza As a new Cast Member and later a new Lead at the Main Entrance, Patty encouraged me to believe in myself and to never sweat the little stuff. As she bravely battled cancer, she also taught me the true meaning of strength and courage. Thank you for everything Patty...may you find the peace you deserve.
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Stephanie Mircovich Gallagher Patty, your strength and courage was remarkable and I will miss your spirit! I am comforted by the fact that you are no longer in pain and feeling sick. I will pray for your family during this difficult time. May peace and love surround each of them.
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Patricia Ann Ristuben Christensen In LOVING MEMORY of my dear cousin, Patty, who lost her battle with cancer today. May you rest in peace. Our prayers and thoughts are with you Dave, Michelle and Jeff.
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Michelle Luna Patty, you and your beautiful family were our neighbors for 15 years. I feel like your passing is surreal. I'm glad that we had the opportunity to know you. My family and I love you and will miss you greatly...
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Libby Shaughnessy I just got to know you the last couple years and I am so glad I did. You are such a special person and your never-ending positive attitude was amazing. You will be missed sooo much and I hope knowing how much you are loved by your Disney friends will help to ease your family's sorrow a little.
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Marcia Totten I am so saddened to hear of this loss. I had been thinking of Patty today and wondering how things were, so to hear of this was quite a shock. She was a dear person to work with and an inspiration as we watched her fight on this site. I pray for strength and comfort to her family.
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Pat Saldivar Patti You were such a great inspiration to all of us at the Main Gate. It was a honor to work with you.You always cared about everyone else,it was a pleasure to know you. You will be greatly missed. I can see you now running, laughing, and best of all in no more pain. I feel very blessed to have know you.All my prayers to your family.
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Nermeen McBride  is saddened by the loss of an ex co worker/friend, and excited to see the in laws this weekend. We'll miss you Patty Sobolsky.
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Neil Santiago Patty, you will be missed. I am deeply saddened by your passing. It is a great loss not only to your family, but to your friends as well. Even for a short period of time, it was a pleasure not only working with you, but also knowing you. You were one of my favorite Leads at the Main Entrance when I worked at Disney...
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Nancy Amberger Patty I keep hoping this is not real, but I know it is. I have a candle for you burning outside....I hope you are at peace. Your family I am sure is at a loss but what a blessing to have had you in their lives I know I feel blessed. Love you Patty
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Jeri Hoskey Patty was such a wonderful person...so strong, upbeat, positive. I am so thankful to have had her in my life. Reading over all the posts is awesome....so many people love you. Such a wonderful person. I love you forever Patty.
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Maggie Godfrey Buela! I will miss you so much my friend, I will miss your strength and your caring smile and your nail bitting! LOVES ♥

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Terry Wick-Jack " A thing of beauty is a joy forever: It's loveliness increases; it will never pass into nothingness." - John Keats

You'll always remain in my heart sweet friend.

Love, Dennis Jack
DX 2/08@43 stg II IDC; gr2,0 nodes. Neoadj chemo, first ACx2 (fail) then CarboTaxotereX6(better). Lump, Rads done 11/08; Clodronate. False alarm queen: PetCT lung & TM marker. NED. PBM w/recon 9/10.
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I'm so sorry to hear about our DisneyGirl.  She was indeed special.
 
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Denise,

Thanks for letting us know.  My heart goes out to Patty and her family.  I hate this terrible disease and sad that we've lost another beautiful soul.

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Sadness, anger, helplessness.

To Patty's family, we were lucky to even meet her here. So sorry for your pain.

Mary
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 I met Patty on this website and I got to know her because we realized we live only about 10 minutes apart...I kept offering to run errands for her or come over and sit with her but she has SO MANY FRIENDS that she never needed me.  We chatted on facebook and got to know each other that way.  This was a woman who LOVED life.  Her job at Disneyland gave her such great joy....Any day that Patty felt up to it she would go to work (I think even if she wasn't on the schedule, they just let her come and work whenever she felt well enough).  She was so VERY loved by so many people...All I can say is that Patty...God must have known what a wonderful person you were...he probably has you at his main gate...exactly where you were at Disneyland ...I am sure that you are his #1 GREETER....I'm happy you are no longer in pain Patty..God Bless you and your family!
diagnosed 4/16/08 stage 1, node neg TN grade 3,lumpectomy 4/30/08 chemo a/c 6 rnds, finished 9/08. Radiation begins 11/6/08       La Verne, California
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There are days, when I hear news like this, where it is easy to feel broken. And yet, the wisdom of her spirit will continue with those she touched to get up, fight another day, be kind to one another and smile. Her passing isn't the end of our relationship. Instead, it is the reminder of the power of enduring gratitude for the life we are given.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote jody Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Apr 2010 at 5:26pm
Well said Mainsailset...I am seriously considering attending her funeral on Wednesday.  Although I didn't know her all that well, I feel like it would be a good idea to go and represent those of use who are still fighting this awful disease.
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Hello Jody,

I think going to her funeral would be a very wonderful thing to do. Go and represent all of us who form this sisterhood of TNBC. I have been to funerals where I didn't know the deceased; maybe I knew their sibling or knew about the circumstances of the death and wanted to show my respects.

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Jody,

What a wonderful idea.  I hope you go and let her family know that Patty's TNBC sisters are there in spirit with you.

Donna
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Here's Jody's report after going to Patty's funeral:

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Today I attended the funeral for Patty Soboloskys(disneygirl1956). ...
 
I am so moved by the experience I had today!
 
I can't even begin to tell you how many lives Patty had touched...talk about standing room only in a very large church! I don't think ANYONE was running Disneyland today because all of the employees were at her funeral!
 
Evidently Patty was the life of the party at Disneyland...always the first to make friends with anyone new...always baking cakes for everyones birthdays...always helping those who were struggling. One of her nicknames at Disneyland was (believe it or not) "Easy Patty"...not exactly meant the way it sounds...As it was explained by one of her many fans at work, "When Patty was the boss of the day, we new that work was going to be "easy" for them because Patty always took care of everything!
 
She was also called "Practically Perfect Patty" because when Patty was around her co-workers would say that everything was Practically Perfect!
 
There were SO MANY funny stories about Patty, she truely brought joy to absolutaly everyone she met! The story I would like to share with you, that evidently sums up the Patty that everyone loved so much is that one time the President of Disney was speaking in an auditorium to all of the employees.. and she and a few of her friends made a plan....While he was giving his speech...right in the middle of it...Patty ran out from the side of the stage right up to the PRESIDENT of Disney and KISSED him RIGHT ON THE MOUTH  and then ran off the stage!  Her friends that knew she was going to do it were standing by the side of the stage and snapped pictures and everyone just ROARED with laughter!
 
Yesterday, one of Pattys friends contacted me on facebook and asked me to find her at the funeral...Her name was Kathy and she was a friend of Pattys for over 30 years...she took care of me and introduced me to many of the people that were important to Patty...including Pattys husband David who I had an opportuntiy to have a few words with and I let him know that I was here today on behalf of all of Pattys friends on the TNBCF site...he couldn't believe it and wants everyone on the site to know how much you all meant to her...David acknowledged the support that she received from everyone here and how much helpful information she got from the people on the site...he is very grateful to everyone and gave me a big hug to pass on to all of you.
 
The service was beautiful with lots of tears and lots of laughter...and it really got me thinking....Pattys life may have been a little shorter then most people live,...but she lived more life in her short stay on earth then most people would live in 100 years...and I think that if I could live every day the way she did I think I would chose to live a short EXTREMELY HAPPY life then a looong miserable one!  Patty  truely taught people how to LIVE!
 
God Bless You Patty...may you rest in peace...
 
 
P.S. Apropriately, Patty was buried in her uniform that she wore at Disneyland, and many of the people who came to the service today came in their uniforms and badges...it was very very touching!
 
 
 
 

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Jody,  Thank you.  Your words brought tears to my eyes.  What a remarkable woman and how she packed a lifetime into her years.

Donna
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Dear Jody,

Thank you for representing the TNBC family at Patty's funeral. It was extremely gracious of you to do that.

I want to be sad for Patty, but it sounds as though she lived a full life. I know her husband and family will miss her a lot. It sounds like she left some Big Shoes To Fill.... so to speak.

Again thank you,

Love in Christ,

Lillie
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ST-IIb,GR3,2cm,BRCA-
6/06 L/Mast/w/SNB,1of3 Nodes+
6/06 Axl. 9 nodes-
8/8 thru 11/15 Chemo (Clin-Trial) DD A/Cx4 -- DD taxol+gemzar x4
No Rads.
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Hi Denise,Lillie and 123Donna,  Yes it appears she sure knew how to live!  One of the moments that was very difficult to take is something I didn't know...Patty was expecting her first grandchild soon...The minster asked that each of her friends  please write down their memories  of Patty and get it to the family so that her grandaughter "Olivia" would have a chance to know her grandmother through them...a wonderful idea and also very painful to think about ...I hate cancer!
 
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