Hi Hope, I encourage you to look at www.inspire.com
. They have an advanced breast cancer community which you can join. There are a lot of categories on there, and you can get on their e-mail list as well. I am personally not at stage 4, but was lymph node positive and I do get their e-mails. Of course, please stick around this site, too! I'm sure some others may come along and share other sites as well. My heart goes out to you in love, and I pray for you and all those researchers out there - I hope we will hear good news about new treatments which will make a difference. Again, sending you my best!